What if the secret to experiencing God's love isn't found in our spiritual disciplines alone, but in how we treat the people around us? This message challenges us to examine our relationships through the lens of Jesus' radical command in John 13:34-35—to love one another as He has loved us. We're reminded that our love for God is authentically demonstrated through our love for people, not just in our private devotion. The call to bring TLC—Touch, Look, and Compliment—into our relationships isn't just about being nice; it's about embodying Christ's sacrificial love in tangible ways. When Jesus touched the lepers, looked into Peter's eyes even after betrayal, and spoke life-giving words, He modeled a relational blueprint that transforms marriages, friendships, parent-child dynamics, and even our connection to the broader community. The Harvard study mentioned confirms what Scripture has always taught: meaningful relationships are the cornerstone of human flourishing. But here's the conviction—we can't give what we don't have. If we're not receiving God's touch, His gaze that says we matter, and His words of affirmation, how can we extend these to others? This message invites us into the hard work of relationships, reminding us that great marriages, strong families, and authentic friendships don't happen accidentally. They require intentionality, humility, and the willingness to see people as Jesus sees them—worth dying for.