If YOU do not STAND for SOMETHING you fall for anything ( Alexanda Hamilton). And YOU can loose your sense of humanity, as you devalue others with your form of defence.

This is the 21st episode. I just want to express my profound GRATITUDE for Listening to ELP with benNORY, all over the world. Thank you so much, God bless you all.

Saying YES to everyone all the TIME does not make you a nice PERSON. You need to LEARN to SAY NO SOMETIMES. 

YOU are PLANTED on earth to SUCCEED like a SEED. GROW to full POTENTIAL and REPRODUCE. REPRODUCTION is  not just giving birth to children, it is about  PRODUCTIVITY  that is,  PRODUCE and REPRODUCE. In other words KEEP GROWING to something BIGGER such that others can BENEFIT.

SUNDAY ODAFE ODJOBO a FEARLESS HERO died serving HUMANITY in the NIGERIAN ARMY with COURAGE and BRAVERY. Like many other MEN and WOMEN who daily put their LIFES on the LINE for us to go about our ROUTINES. Each of them leave loved ones behind to the battle. Thanks to all SECURITY PERSONNEL all over the world for what you do.

LIFE is in PHASES with different BEATS, you got to keep PUSHING the limits. Do not give up or give in as long as you have BREATH better days are ahead, because the beats always CHANGES. Keep WORKING and keep HOPE alive. 

Everyone has a SCAR, that PAIN  no one sees but YOU. It cuts DEEP and BLEEDS. Being GRATEFUL as YOU SERVE will bring you JOY and PEACE. Just for that moment take your eyes off the pain and SERVE your gift.

LIFE is a JOURNEY and you have to LIVE YOURS, stop trying to PLAY CATCH UP living up to other people's VIEW, use your MIRROR. OWN YOUR JOURNEY as  ELEVATE ONE STEP AT A TIME.

We are all prone to MISTAKES. FAILURE does NOT feel good and NO one loves to FAIL. But, it is an INTEGRAL part of the GROWTH PROCESS, it only SHOWS you another WAY not to do IT. As you learn and build CONFIDENCE along the WAY. 

CHAOS can only lead to MORE chaos. YOUR DECISIONS and resulting BEHAVIORS are responsible for your SUCCESS in LIFE. The decisions you make fall into certain PATTERNS which means most OUTCOMES are PREDICTABLE. Therefore, Develop GREAT HABITS to CREATE DIFFERENT PATTERNS IN YOUR LIFE.