Elsplend Realities

In this powerful episode of Elsplend Realities, we are joined by Dr. Nancy Dome to explore what it truly means to stay present in conversations that feel uncomfortable, complex, or emotionally charged.

Rather than focusing on what to say, Dr. Dome invites us to examine how we show up — internally and relationally — when navigating topics like identity, race, belonging, and deeply held beliefs. Through her Compassionate Dialogue framework and the RIR Protocol, she offers a grounded approach to communication that prioritizes awareness, emotional regulation, and human connection over reactivity and defensiveness.

This conversation unpacks why difficult dialogue often breaks down, how internal triggers shape our responses, and what it takes to hold both truth and compassion at the same time. We also explore the role of boundaries, self-reflection, and presence in building conversations that don’t just inform — but transform.

If you’ve ever avoided a conversation because you feared saying the wrong thing, this episode offers a different path forward: not perfection, but presence.

Because meaningful dialogue doesn’t begin with certainty — it begins with the willingness to stay.

In this deeply personal episode of Elsplend Realities, Daniel Faust — host of the Rhythm of Intimacy podcast — shares a powerful story of collapse, conviction, and the slow, intentional journey toward restoration.

What began as a breaking point in 2014 — marked by internal pressure, identity loss, and a marriage on the brink — became the foundation for a new understanding of intimacy. Not as performance, control, or perfection, but as surrender.

Through years of layered healing across emotional, spiritual, relational, and personal dimensions, Daniel discovered a truth many struggle to accept: self-protection may feel safe, but it often blocks the very connection we long for — both in marriage and in our relationship with God.

This conversation explores the courage it takes to release control, the role of humility in rebuilding trust, and the quiet power of choosing vulnerability over pride. It also offers hope for those carrying shame, reminding us that restoration is not about getting everything right, but about being willing to begin again.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected in your relationships despite your efforts to hold things together, this episode invites you into a different path — one shaped not by striving, but by surrender.

In this insightful episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Lauren Zaslansky Conner, founder of ZAZ Business Solutions, to explore the often-unspoken phase of growth — the messy middle.

This is the stage where businesses aren’t failing, but they’re no longer simple. Revenue is flowing, teams are active, and yet clarity feels just out of reach. Decisions carry more weight, urgency increases, and leaders find themselves navigating complexity without a clear map.

Lauren brings a rare blend of experience from both large-scale organizations like The Walt Disney Company and fast-moving, mission-driven businesses. Through that lens, she unpacks how growth can outpace structure, why overwhelm is often a signal of misalignment rather than failure, and how calm, intentional leadership can restore clarity.

We explore the emotional side of decision-making, the role of values in operational choices, and how life’s personal complexities quietly shape how leaders show up at work.

If you’ve ever felt like everything is working — but nothing feels steady — this conversation offers a grounded path forward: slow the noise, find clarity, and lead with intention.

In this introspective episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Rodney Phillips, author of Dissension, to explore how quiet moments of miscommunication can evolve into lasting conflict.

What begins as a conversation about a novel becomes a deeper examination of human behavior — how trust fractures, how loyalty can both protect and distort, and how silence in the wrong moment can carry consequences far beyond what we expect.

Drawing from a lifetime of observing people across leadership, mentorship, and everyday interactions, Rodney reflects on the emotional and psychological dynamics that shape disagreement — not as explosive events, but as subtle, cumulative shifts that often go unnoticed until it’s too late.

This episode invites listeners to reconsider the conversations they avoid, the assumptions they carry, and the unseen turning points that shape relationships over time.

Because sometimes, what changes everything… is what was never said.

In this illuminating episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Garrett Wood, clinical hypnotherapist and founder of Gnosis Therapy, to challenge one of the most ingrained beliefs about success: that pushing harder is always the answer.

Drawing from nearly two decades of working with executives, founders, and high-performing professionals, Garrett introduces a nervous-system-first approach to sustainable performance through his A³ Framework — Assess, Accommodate, Align. This conversation reframes burnout not as a failure of discipline, but as a deeper mismatch between internal capacity and external demands.

We explore the hidden cost of emotional suppression, the overlooked signals of nervous system overload, and the concept of “bio-budgets” — a more humane way of understanding energy, focus, and resilience. Garrett also unpacks how attachment patterns, executive functioning, and identity shape the way we lead, perform, and recover.

If you’ve ever felt like success is coming at the expense of your well-being, this episode offers a grounded and practical shift: from force to awareness, from endurance to alignment.

Because real performance isn’t about overriding yourself — it’s about understanding how you actually work, and building from there.

In this deeply moving episode of Elsplend Realities, therapist, speaker, and author Harriet Cabelly joins us to explore what it truly means to live a meaningful life in the face of adversity.

Drawing from decades of guiding others through grief and life transitions — as well as her own personal journey through non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma — Harriet offers a grounded and compassionate perspective on navigating loss, uncertainty, and emotional pain. Influenced by the work of Viktor Frankl and the principles of Positive Psychology, she invites us to reconsider how meaning, hope, and resilience are built in real life — not ideal conditions.

This conversation gently challenges the pressure to “stay positive,” offering instead a more honest path: one that makes room for grief while still allowing for growth, connection, and purpose. Together, we explore how identity shifts after loss, what it means to become a “thriver,” and how small, intentional mindset changes can help us move forward — even when life feels uncertain.

If you’ve ever wondered whether a rich, meaningful life is still possible after pain, this episode offers a steady and hopeful answer: yes — but on new terms.

In this heartfelt episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Chris Neilsen, Chief Marketing Officer at Kesem, to explore what leadership looks like when life becomes deeply personal.

Blending over 25 years of brand leadership experience with the lived reality of supporting a spouse through cancer and raising a child within that journey, Chris offers a powerful perspective on empathy, resilience, and purpose-driven work. This conversation goes beyond strategy — it examines how families navigate illness, how children process emotional uncertainty, and how leaders can show up with both strength and humanity.

We also explore the vital role organizations like Kesem play in supporting children through some of life’s most vulnerable moments, and what it means to build systems that truly care for people — not just performance.

This episode is a reminder that leadership is not just about outcomes, but about presence, compassion, and the courage to remain human in the face of adversity.

In this thought-provoking episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Jonathon Grantham, author of The Corporate Sociopath Handbook, to explore the hidden psychological dynamics shaping today’s workplaces.

Beyond strategy and performance, this conversation dives into the realities many professionals quietly face — toxic leadership, unspoken power structures, and the emotional cost of staying principled in environments that don’t always reward integrity.

Drawing from decades of experience leading complex technology programs across global organisations, Jonathon unpacks how harmful leadership patterns emerge, how they impact capable individuals, and how to navigate these systems without losing your sense of self.

This episode is not about blame — it’s about awareness, agency, and learning how to lead with clarity in environments that test it.

In this deeply reflective episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Valérie Demont, author of Being Is The New Doing, to explore a quieter, more sustainable path to success — one rooted not in constant output, but in self-awareness, emotional clarity, and inner alignment.

Together, we unpack the hidden costs of overachievement, the emotional patterns behind burnout, and the power of what Valérie calls “inner governance.” Through her FLUIDE approach, she shares how leaders and entrepreneurs can rebuild self-trust, create space for clarity, and grow their businesses without sacrificing their well-being.

If you’ve ever felt successful on the outside but disconnected within, this conversation offers a grounded invitation to pause, realign, and redefine what success truly means — on your own terms.

On this episode of Elsplend Realities, we speak with Dennis Mark Interdonato—Army veteran, realtor, entrepreneur, and advocate for mental health—about what real strength looks like.

Dennis shares his journey navigating high-intensity worlds, from military service to construction to real estate, while managing bipolar depression. We explore discipline, loyalty, identity, and the tension between toughness and vulnerability, uncovering what it means to build not just a brand, but a life of integrity.

This conversation is a reminder that resilience isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet, internal, and forged in the daily decision to keep showing up.