Most people think oral sex is about technique.

Speed.

Pressure.

Endurance.

But if that were true,

why does it so often turn into effort?

Why does her body disconnect

even when the technique is “right”?

In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael explore oral sex through a different lens.

Not performance.

Not porn.

Not “do this until orgasm.”

But connection.

You’ll hear how:

The mind takes over when the body doesn’t feel met

Technique without attunement falls flat

Pleasure changes when the receiver becomes active

Suction, sound, and full-body contact shift arousal at a nervous system level

This is Suction Sex® Oral 2.0.

Less effort.

Less agenda.

More embodiment.

More aliveness.

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• Active Receiver guiding rhythm and positioning moment by moment
• Relaxed arousal instead of overstimulation
• Suction and pressure building engorgement without force
• Micro-adjustments in pace and angle that change everything
• Real-time feedback that keeps presence alive
• Anatomy experienced, not lectured
• Intimacy layered in, not performed

Listen in.

Feel what changes when oral becomes an experience, not a task.

There’s a second you know well.

Pleasure is rising.

Your breath shortens.

And something in your body wants to dive over that edge.

This podcast is about that moment, just before you go over.

In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael talk about the part of pleasure almost no one is taught to feel. The moment when sensation could spread instead of spike. The place where the body can soften instead of rush. The difference between riding a wave and falling off it.

You’ll hear why orgasm has become the default ending, what your breath is doing right before that happens, and how subtle sensation disappears when the body tenses instead of listens. This conversation isn’t about technique. It’s about noticing what’s already happening inside you and realizing there’s another option.

By the end of the free episode, you will recognize the moment you’ve been skipping over their whole lives.

With the Members-Only Episode, you will stay in that magical moment as Dr. Saida takes you on the journey of the exact moment pleasure collapses. She breaks down what your breath does when sensation intensifies, why the pelvis grips instead of softens, and how orgasm quietly becomes the way out of something much bigger.
You’ll hear her demonstrate the difference between a habitual squeeze and an alchemical one, and you can literally hear the shift in her voice as her body opens. That sound alone changes how you understand your own sensations.

This is where people realize why pleasure has felt rushed, capped, or repetitive even when it looks “good” on the surface. And once you hear it, you can’t unhear it.

In the erotic Members-Only insert, you’ll hear:

• Real-time “in bed with us” exploration, with raw reactions and sensual guidance as it unfolds

• How micro-movements and position shifts create entirely new waves of sensation without forcing anything

• Why intentional pauses are the key to letting intensity spread through the whole body instead of overwhelming you

• Breath-led arousal, where the nervous system drops into relaxed pleasure and everything becomes more vivid

• The subtle energetics layer, where less movement can create more charge, more feeling, and more depth

This part isn’t shared publicly.

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when you don’t jump, this is the conversation you’ve been waiting for.

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Polarity isn’t the problem, performance is. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael break down why “masculine/feminine” roles can turn intimacy into ideology, and how real magnetism is built through embodiment, coherence, and felt-state attunement.

In the episode

• Polarity as a dynamic, not a persona

• Magnetism = charge, not jargon

• Why “chemistry” can be dysregulation

• Coherence and embodied truth as the foundation of real attraction

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• Breath + pelvic-floor cues to wake arousal and build charge

• Micro-adjustments, pacing, and “hold right there” calibration

• Attunement cues (voice, timing, sensation tracking) in real time

• Security > safety: truth as sexy, coherence as the foundation

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You can be having good sex… and still feel unsatisfied.

Not broken.

Not disconnected enough to leave.

Just quietly aware that something isn’t landing.

This episode speaks to the moment when “fine” stops working.

Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida talk openly about bespoke sex coaching—and why people seek it out when talking, adjusting, and trying harder hasn’t touched the real ache underneath.

This is about being met.

In your desire.

In your body.

In your truth.

And here’s what makes this episode different than almost anything you’ll hear in the sexual wellness space:

🔥 The Members-Only Erotic Insert (the “real-time transmission”) The full version of this episode includes a 30+ minute erotic insert where we practice what we preach—not as performance, but as embodied, moment-to-moment intimacy. You don’t just hear concepts. You hear the craft in real time.

Inside this private segment, you’ll experience:

• Live erotic communication: how we speak to sensation, discomfort, desire, boundaries, and arousal while it’s happening

• Real-time adaptation: how a skilled lover adjusts technique, depth, pace, and rhythm based on the body’s yes/no/maybe—not ego, pressure, or “doing it right”

• Pleasure without pushing: what it sounds like to stay connected when the body is sensitive (gut tension, deeper vaginal soreness, changing arousal states) without shutting down or forcing through

• The feedback loop most couples never learn: cue → response → refinement → deeper trust → more pleasure

• A raised standard: moving beyond “sex that doesn’t hurt” or “she had an orgasm, so we’re good,” into a shared ability to hold an orgasmic state together—connected, sustainable, and wildly intimate

• Why coaching works: because what changes people isn’t more tips—it’s learning how to feel, communicate, and create in real time

Most professionals will talk about intimacy.

Almost nobody will demonstrate embodied intimacy—especially not with this level of honesty, skill, and lived practice.

If something in you keeps asking for more and you don’t know how to name it yet, this conversation will feel familiar.

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If sex were actually working for you, you wouldn’t be trying so hard.

Trying to last.

Trying to relax.

Trying to do it “right.”

Turn-taking sex taught effort, timing, and control—but not shared pleasure. And when it comes to penetration, the message goes even deeper: it’s framed as something for men. Women are told to relax, surrender, and receive—while somehow also being tight, responsive, and present.

Your body knows how impossible that feels.

This episode names what rarely gets said out loud. When pleasure is divided into turns, one body stays active while the other goes passive. Penetration becomes friction instead of sensation. Connection thins. Desire fades. Sex starts to feel mechanical instead of alive.

In this conversation, Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael dismantle the turn-taking model and expose how cultural conditioning, body mechanics, and advice like “just relax” quietly sabotage intimacy—especially for women. They point toward a different experience of sex: one where penetration doesn’t privilege one body over the other, and pleasure becomes a shared, sensorial state.

This isn’t about orgasms happening at the same time.

It’s about what happens when your body is no longer waiting.

Once you understand why turn-taking doesn’t work—especially in penetration—sex can’t feel the same again.

If you think your relationship is stuck because your partner won’t change, you’re lying to yourself.

Your intimacy isn’t dying because of them —it’s dying because you’re hiding behind the same bullshit story you’ve been recycling for years.

“I’m too broken.” “They’re too broken.” “It’ll get better when THEY finally do something.”

No .It won’t. And deep down, you already know that.

This episode is a slap in the face to every excuse that keeps your love life mediocre, numb, shut down, or stale.

Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael rip apart the patterns you’ve been protecting — the pretending, the resentment, the apathy, the pornified fantasies, the emotional laziness — and show you the truth:

Your relationship changes the moment YOU stop bullshitting yourself. Not one second before.

Inside, you’ll confront:

• how you sabotage connection in ways you swear you don’t

• why you keep attracting resistance — in them and in yourself

• the truth your body’s been whispering, screaming, then shutting down over

• the cycle that turns dead bedrooms into electric, alive intimacy

If you’re terrified to look in the mirror, good. That means you’re finally ready.

This episode isn’t gentle. It’s not comforting. It’s the line in the sand.

Listen only if you’re done living small —and done blaming everyone else for it.

If you think your relationship is stuck because your partner won’t change, you’re lying to yourself.

Your intimacy isn’t dying because of them —it’s dying because you’re hiding behind the same bullshit story you’ve been recycling for years.

“I’m too broken.”

“They’re too broken.”

“It’ll get better when THEY finally do something.”

No.It won’t.

And deep down, you already know that.

This episode is a slap in the face to every excuse that keeps your love life mediocre, numb, shut down, or stale.

Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael rip apart the patterns you’ve been protecting — the pretending, the resentment, the apathy, the pornified fantasies, the emotional laziness — and show you the truth:

Your relationship changes the moment YOU stop bullshitting yourself.Not one second before.

Inside, you’ll confront:

• how you sabotage connection in ways you swear you don’t

• why you keep attracting resistance — in them and in yourself

• the truth your body’s been whispering, screaming, then shutting down over

• the cycle that turns dead bedrooms into electric, alive intimacy

If you’re terrified to look in the mirror, good.

That means you’re finally ready.

This episode isn’t gentle.

It’s not comforting.

It’s the line in the sand.

Listen only if you’re done living small —and done blaming everyone else for it.

Most women have no idea they’re walking around at only a fraction of their true arousal capacity. Full engorgement — the plump, swollen, pulsing aliveness your body is meant to have — unlocks deeper desire, richer lubrication, and pleasure you can feel in your bones.

In this milestone 50th episode 🎉 Dr. Saida & Aaron Michael expose the real reason women lose desire, the hidden erectile structures almost no one talks about, and why the culture’s obsession with “tightness” keeps women numb, tense, and underwhelmed. When the female erectile system finally wakes up, everything changes — in sex and in life.

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Start listening. Your body will tell you what to do next.

If a thin layer of latex can ruin your confidence, it’s not the condom that’s the problem.

It’s the story you’ve been telling yourself about what makes you a great lover.

This is where sex education finally grows up.

Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael get brutally real about the condom conversation—the myths, the turn-offs, the excuses—and how to flip them into power, confidence, and connection.

If you’ve ever lost your erection while fumbling with a condom, felt your partner’s vibe crash the second you mentioned one, or bought into the “it kills energy” line, this episode is going to rewire the way you think about sex.

You’ll learn how to:

• •Stay hard and stay connected (00:45–03:50)
• Make condoms part of the foreplay, not the awkward pause (08:00–11:30)
• Use them to increase arousal instead of kill it (15:30–20:00)
• Put one on soft and still own the moment (22:20–24:00)
• Turn “safe sex” into the sexiest power move you’ve ever made (49:20–52:00)

This isn’t another health lecture—it’s real sex education for people who actually have sex.

No shame. No awkward demos. Just straight talk about pleasure, protection, and presence.

If you want to be the kind of lover people remember, start here.

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You’ve been taught to chase orgasm, perform, and play a role. That’s not sex—that’s conditioning. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael show what happens when polarity dissolves and pleasure becomes power: no scripts, no shame—just erotic intelligence waking up in your body.

In the episode

• Polarity → singularity: when leader/follower disappears

• Arousal as fuel for focus, creativity, and life

• Signature SUCTION SEX® Active Receiver & Adaptive Giver dynamics (attunement > technique)

• Dropping “shoulds” to let your erotic genius lead

• Landing parasympathetic, deeply nourishing states
  

Erotic Insert (members)

• Step-by-step suction mechanics & hip patterns to amplify her arousal

• Breath + pelvic floor for ejaculatory choice and sustained pleasure

• Attunement cues (voice, timing, micro-movements) to stay in flow

• Post-lovemaking integration to carry the charge into your day

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