Pleasure is power—and in today’s world, it’s still taboo. In this revolutionary episode of Her Second Stage, Hilda Lunderstedt sits down with Leola, founder of Talk Tantra to Me, to explore how women over 40 can access abundance, prosperity, and legacy by reconnecting to the core of their feminine power: their pleasure, intuition, and body wisdom. In midlife, many women hit a breaking point—burned out by masculine hustle, disconnected from their bodies, and unfulfilled by traditional markers of success. Leola reveals why the cultural obsession with “abundance” is often a trap, and how true prosperity comes not from having more—but from living in alignment with who you really are. 

This episode unpacks the difference between abundance and prosperity, explains how attachment wounds and childhood programming shape your money story, and introduces a radical new path to wealth that starts in the body. You’ll learn how to treat money as a lover, shift out of scarcity patterns, and magnetize new levels of joy, vitality, and wealth by embracing your sensuality and power.

Hilda and Leola also dive deep into feminine archetypes—including the dark feminine—and how reclaiming parts of yourself that were once shamed or suppressed can unlock untapped reservoirs of purpose and creativity. Whether you’re successful but spiritually dry, or just waking up to your second stage of life, this conversation offers a powerful invitation to redefine what wealth and womanhood really mean. 

You’ll learn:

• Why “more” isn’t always better—and how abundance can become a golden cage.
• How to distinguish between performative pleasure and the pleasure that fuels your soul.
• Why healing your relationship with money requires healing your relationship with your body.
• Three shadow patterns that sabotage women’s earning potential and how to shift them.
• How to identify your attachment style with money and rewire it.
• The hidden link between grief, sensuality, and feminine power—and how to unlock it.
• Why midlife is the most potent time to reclaim your eros, your wisdom, and your leadership.
• This episode isn’t about manifesting fluff or bypassing hard truths—it’s about coming home to your body, owning your worth, and using your pleasure as a force of sacred change.

If you're ready to move from burnout to bliss and from hustle to holistic prosperity, this one is for you.

Timestamps

00:00 The Intersection of Pleasure and Prosperity

01:07 Understanding Abundance vs. Prosperity

06:54 The Role of Life Events in Shaping Perspectives

10:08 Embodiment of Wealth and Money

12:26 Healing Inner Child Wounds and Money Relationships

16:58 The Power of Female Pleasure

18:19 Defining Pleasure and Its Impact

21:11 Power Dynamics in Money, S*x, and Religion

24:07 Building Legacy Through Pleasure

25:54 Exploring the Dark Feminine Archetypes

33:20 The Timelessness of Sensuality and S*xuality

37:18 Introducing Sacred S*x Ed: A New Perspective

Guest: Leola | Talk Tantra to Me

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