Embrace hosted by Coralyn Jewel

Every week I debate what I want to talk about as there is so much happening with the adult industry today.  Legalities changing daily, more rules, more shadow banning. Accounts being removed and merchant processors pulling from platforms and yet when we think we are making progress regarding accepting others for their sexuality, their fetishes, kinks and trying to help people love themselves society keeps putting restrictions.  I then step back and look at my life as we all do and wonder, am I doing what I am supposed to do.  If I die tomorrow will I have made a difference somewhere in someone's life? This episode is my personal discovery of just that, the idea and thought of my legacy? 

My coaching, blogs, tour schedule and updates can be found on https://TheCoralynJewel.com and https://Embracingyoursexuality.net

Join my for my first time doing onsite live interviews with some of the amazing performers at the 2022 Exxxotica Expo in New Jersey.  Here from Danica Danalli, Micky Lynn, SashaBrabuster, Victoria Peaks and Naughty Jojo as they share how the show is going and how you can see more of their work.

I am often asked from not only fans but other performers about the shows I attend and if fans can attend and what are the difference  So I decided to break down some of the bigger players in the industry.  I talk about each show, what is offered, which ones I have attended and plan to attend on my tour schedule this year and what I liked about the different shows.  From YNOT Awards to Exxxotica, AVN, XRCO, X-BIZ and more each offering a little twist to make them unique.  Thanks for listening and if you have more questions, comments etc. please find me on social media or just google my name Coralyn Jewel and reach out.  Video this week will not be on YouTube apparently last weeks leaving your legacy topic was too adult or references  my website with no nudity or content was too adult for them so please join for free my Xbiz.tv channel

 Thanks for your support. 

When I started working in the industry in 2012 as a web cam model and custom content creator I was not familiar with a lot of the terminology or abbreviations for certain fetish requests.  I many times turned to google for assistance.  I also early on in my career was sometimes a bit thrown off, confused and could not quite understand where the turn on was for the request being asked of me.   As I gained more experience, studied more & educated myself, I saw things very differently.  It is someone else's kink, fetish, fantasy and it is not my job to understand their reasoning for this request but instead without judgement to do my job and roleplay out their request to the best of my ability.  Never judge, or Kink shame if its not your thing turn the other direction.  "To each their own".

Ben Ridley, an Australian native and owner of Onlyrooms is our guest on this week's episode.   Ben, who spent some time in the US came up with the idea of using the same format as AirBnB and VRBO ( Vacation Rentals by owner) but for content creators. Not only can these venues be rented by the hour, day, week, or month, but the owners are well aware that their property is being used to film adult content and or other purposes such as a photo shoot, dominatrix session, or a Lifestyle Swingers event. The company name, well. quite fitting of course; Onlyrooms.  OnlyRooms just recently began its operations and by the looks, of the website, they are well on its way to a successful business plan. The platform connects hosts who own unique venues, with the guests that want to rent them. The challenge of finding a venue where the guest can have complete creative freedom to enjoy their hired spaces without fear of repercussions or being banned will soon be an obstacle in the past. Ben says, " we want creators to enjoy these unique venues without anxiety and nerves getting in the way of their talent.  The ability to search, find and book amazing locations anywhere in the world, and experience them with complete freedom." Do you have a venue you feel is a good fit for the platform or are you a Dominatrix, film company, or content creator excited to explore this option? It's easy and affordable. Head on over to https://onlyrooms.com and see the current listing or use the contact form to reach out to the company and submit your listing. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Interview with Doug Probst also known as Shawn Mayotte.  His story is a brutally honest description of his childhood.  Horrific physical and sexual abuse by his parents, priests, probation officers and others who were authority figures in the LA County Probation System.  He shares with us how it all began, his first memories of child abuse.  He was incarcerated from 12-17, never seeing the outside world. In 1982 was emancipated to the streets and landed in the epicenter of the AIDS epidemic when there was no name for this disease.  Witnessing 30 of his fellow hustlers die of a disease that had no name before he turned 18. 

Luckily, Doug who had a musical talent that enabled him to perform with some talented well known musicians such as, Billy Preston, Neil Young, Dan Hartman, James Ingram and many others.  In addition Doug shares with us how he was able to survive and learn to perfect the hustle of escorting.   He also performed in Adult Films in the 1980s and was a top nude model throughout the decade, gracing the covers and centerfolds of many pornographic publications. This is the true story of a survivor.  https://mayottenow.com/

This is not a long episode at only 15 minutes it might be the shortest one I have released, however I felt the need to really emphasize the importance of next weeks guest Episode 88 On Monday September 12th. Doug Probst also known as Shawn Mayotte is an author, Gay community Ally, Drug Counselor, Professional musician, writer, husband, father most importantly a survivor of horrible sexual assault stories that were an every day occurrence as far back as he can remember. 

 I urge you to listen next week and down load his PDF book https://mayottenow.com Just when we think we are having a bad day cause the office coffee machine is down or service department added new breaks to your bill, look at this man, who he is now and what he has become.   He had will power, street smarts, courage and determination to survive and not only does he show us how but he is now helping others today who are suffering as he once did for so many years.

We need to stop sweating the small stuff and focus on the big picture.  This story is just the reminder we all sometimes need.       

We all have seen reality shows but not one that has two versions! On his 12th episode CJ Love shares with us his background, and how he ended up on the west coast right in the midst of a pandemic and now directing his 12th episode he shares his idea behind the show "Real Life" XXX and future plans.

YouTube: "Real Life" XXX

https://youtube.com/channel/UCAtUxkjnwqUiUyus2yvWhzw

Twitter: ReaLifeXXX 

https://mobile.twitter.com/ReaLifeXXX

Instagram: realifetriplex 

TikTok: realifetriplex

for the XXX links check their twitter 

High Profile Life Podcast has just changed the format ever so slightly. Still not just focusing on just interviewing adult entertainers, or working in the industry, but anything adult topic related.  

The two questions that I am constantly confronted with are, Coralyn can you help us get into Swinging, we do not know where or how to start. The 2nd question is I want to be a porn star,  can you help me?  This episode is a simple 30-minute rundown of various more popular platforms to meet other Swingers, how to tell if someone is real, warning signs, etc.  

As we progress weekly I will go into more detail regarding such topics as rules, what not to do, what to bring to a party, and the differences between a Meet & Greet, Hotel Takeover, or nightclub event.

More information on https://highprofile.Life

My guest this week found me on the platform Fetlife and he had quite a few interesting stories to share.   I decided to ask him to be a guest on High Profile Life Podcast.  Bent Carrott was his most common name, but he did have others such as Dick Fitzwell and Claude Ballz.   My guest shares with us how he got into filming Fetish both as a performer and director.  We discuss how the porn industry had its scene and the Fetish had its own scene.   The two did not inner-mingle and we learn about a different side of filming "Smut' during the Golden Era.