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Guardians of Grit: Authentic Identity, Purpose, and Raising Strong, Kind Sons

On Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with David Ask, founder of The Ask Experience and author of the upcoming book Guardians of Grit, about authentic identity, purpose, grit, and fatherhood. Ask argues identity is uncovered—not achieved—by clarifying values, convictions, virtues, strengths, and desired impact, rather than defining oneself by roles or performance. He reframes grit as values-based staying power without emotional shutdown and says purpose should primarily focus on helping others flourish.

They discuss how fathers can raise strong and kind sons by recognizing the larger story of what’s worth fighting for and by using a “notice, name, nurture” framework, including the idea that a father’s key job is to remove uncertainty. The conversation also explores humility, capability, faith, and the revelation of others’ “riches.”

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro
00:51 What Is Authentic Identity
02:14 Childhood to Core Values
05:33 Values Convictions Virtues
11:08 Purpose, Love, and Alignment
16:03 Start With Who, Not Why
19:14 Defining Real Grit
21:05 Values That Build Grit
21:54 Raising Strong Kind Sons
23:12 The Bigger Story Of Manhood
25:39 Notice Name Nurture
27:13 A Father Removes Uncertainty
29:33 Humility Over Performance
31:11 Dangerous Yet Gentlemen
34:14 Faith Identity And Worth
37:20 Bottom Of The Ladder
39:15 Connect With David
40:38 Reveal Others' Riches
42:47 Host Takeaways And Next Steps

Connect with David
David Ask — https://theaskexperience.com/
LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/thedavidask/

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