In part 2 of my conversation with Kelly I had the privilege of letting her share a part of her personal journal and her observation of how nature works in ways that might seem ineffective on the surface but without the gift of letting a 'nut be a nut' many would starve to death. The entire ecosystem depends on some seeds (nuts) taking root and becoming mighty oaks and so being the sustenance for the animals. Likewise, sometimes we put such expectations on ourselves to be something other than we are...as if what we are is less than what we are meant to be.