In this episode of Empathetic Presence, host Lee Bonvissuto explores the importance of liberating our voices from anxiety, overthinking, and toxic environments. Lee argues against the concept of Executive Presence and promotes Empathetic Presence instead. This approach prioritizes ease, empathy, and true human connection—elements that technology can never replace. Lee shares insights from ten years of helping leaders express themselves confidently and introduces alternative strategies to embody confidence, harness empathy, and own expertise. The episode encourages listeners to see themselves as leaders, use their voices for impactful causes, and reject outdated leadership models.

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00:00 Introduction to Empathetic Presence 

00:21 Understanding Speaking Anxiety 

00:32 The Importance of Empathy in Leadership 

00:52 Challenging Executive Presence 

01:22 About the Host: Lee Bonvissuto 

01:57 Data on Speaking Confidence 

03:36 Physical and Emotional Distractions 

05:09 Systemic and Situational Factors 

06:27 Rejecting Executive Presence 

07:27 Embracing Empathetic Presence 

08:47 Harnessing Empathy and Expertise 

11:32 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode of Empathetic Presence, host Lee Bonvissuto introduces the podcast's mission to amplify voices silenced by toxic cultures, anxiety, and overthinking. Lee discusses the necessity of empathetic leadership over traditional “executive presence”, advocating for a more human, connected workplace. The episode aims to equip listeners with tools to speak up, advocate for themselves and others, and create inclusive cultures. Lee emphasizes that empathy combined with expertise is our strength, encouraging a rejection of systemic pressures that stifle authentic communication. Listeners are invited to share their challenges and suggest empathetic leaders for future interviews.

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• Want to experience Empathetic Presence in action? Join my free monthly practice lab and learn tools to express yourself in every setting. Register here.
• Learn about Lee’s work here. 

00:00 Introduction to Empathetic Presence

00:29 The Problem with Toxic Cultures

01:19 Rejecting Executive Presence

01:29 Embracing Empathy and Connection

02:15 The Need for Empathetic Leadership

03:05 Empathy as a Strength

03:16 Conclusion and Call to Action