In this deeply engaging episode of "This is Aging," Mary Van Geffen shares her journey of transitioning from feeling overwhelmed in parenting to becoming a beloved coach helping parents of “spicy ones” find support. We explore the nuances of nurturing children with strong personalities, emphasizing the significance of understanding and accepting their unique traits. Mary opens up about her experiences with ADHD and how it has shaped her perspective on parenting and self-awareness. From discussing the impact of generational patterns on parenting styles to exploring strategies for fostering autonomy in teenagers, this episode is filled with heartfelt stories and practical advice. Mary's approach, blending kindness with firmness, offers a refreshing viewpoint on navigating the complex waters of parenthood and the role of empathy and understanding in raising confident, resilient children. Join us in this captivating dialogue that promises to reshape how you view the parenting journey, especially if you have a “spirited” or neurodivergent child.