In this conversation with Victoria an amazing social worker, we speak about the kind of empathy you cannot learn from a textbook.

You learn it by living through something that rearranges your entire life.

After surviving a stroke and brain surgery, I found myself standing in shoes I never imagined wearing. Suddenly I understood the quiet moments inside hospital rooms, the vulnerability of patients, the strength of caregivers, and the emotional weight carried by those who support healing every day.

In this episode we explore:

• what empathy truly feels like when you become the patient
• the process of unlearning your old self so you can relearn life again
• the ego — and how it convinces us we are right instead of inviting us to understand others
• why stroke survivors and peer counseling can change recovery in powerful ways
• meeting patients exactly where they are in their journey
• why every recovery story deserves its own pace and space

We also talk about something many people overlook: boundaries.

Empathy is powerful, but it cannot become your entire identity. Sometimes healing means stepping indoors, resting, limiting contact, and communicating clearly with the people who support you.

Recovery also taught me something unexpected.

A stroke forced me to build emotional muscles I never knew I had. In many ways I feel older, wiser, humbled by life — like someone who has lived seventy years of lessons in a shorter amount of time.

This conversation is about lived experience, compassion, and honoring the journey of every survivor, caregiver, and healer walking their own path.

And sometimes, when life feels beautiful again, remembering to make a wish when the moment arrives — when a blue jay flies by, when a butterfly appears, or when a HVMMINGBYRD crosses your path.

Because those moments remind us we are still here.

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