En Wellbeing welcomes breathwork practitioner and mindset coach Lucy Scarlett to discuss why people seek resets at the start of the year and how to access future-focused feelings by combining a “top down” mindset approach with a “bottom up” nervous system approach. Lucy explains that feeling stuck often reflects stress, anxiety, or dysregulation rather than true presence, and suggests building awareness by noticing subtle moments of distraction, procrastination, and people-pleasing. Lulu and Lucy explore how burnout can show up as overwhelm, irritability, autopilot, or difficulty with basic decisions, and how control, micromanaging, and overpreparation can be self-sabotaging overextensions of strengths rooted in safety-seeking beliefs. Lucy describes conscious connected breathwork, emotional “blockages,” and nervous system capacity, and closes by sharing an upcoming online five-day reset for 2026 combining breath practices and visualization.
00:00 Meet Lulu and Lucy
00:53 Why New Year Resets Work
02:12 Accessing Future Feelings
03:13 Top Down Bottom Up Method
06:06 Spotting Patterns on Autopilot
08:06 Clients Seeking Clarity Calm
10:02 Anxiety Options and Burnout
14:08 Burnout Signs and Coping
16:52 Building Self Trust
21:58 Self Sabotage and Control
25:04 Type A Micromanaging at Work
29:21 Nervous System Bucket Model
30:27 Breathwork For Release
31:44 Capacity Like The Gym
32:45 Energy Emotions Blockages
34:32 Tap Metaphor Processing
36:10 What Is Connected Breathing
39:51 Modern Pace Burnout
40:54 Beginner Steps And Gears
43:12 Identity And Core Values
45:57 Values Principles Beliefs
51:42 Loosening Limiting Beliefs
53:27 Rewiring Takes Ongoing Work
56:40 Five Day Reset Closing
You can learn more about Lucy Scarlett, her Breathwork and Mindset Coaching - as well as future events and workshops she will be hosting at:
IG: @lucycalmconfidence
YouTube: @lucyscarlettcoaching
You can also learn more about En Wellbeing at:
IG: @enwellbeing
Site: www.enwellbeing.com
We would like to thank The Podcast Room, London for the recording of this episode.