The key to any successful relationship is to meet each other's 'deepest need.'What we discover is that women spells love - C.O.U.P.L.E which is, Closeness, Openness, Understanding, Peacemaking, Loyalty and Esteem.A man however spells respect- C.H.A.I.R.S which is Conquest, Heirarchy, Authority, Insight, Relationship and Sexuality. Not wrong.......Just different!