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We’ve all heard the basic advice: turn off notifications, put your phone in grayscale, or just "try harder." But if you’re like me, those tips didn't stick. After years of experimentation and diving into the psychology of habit formation, I’ve finally found a system that is working for me.
In this episode (Part 2 of our series on technology), we are moving past the philosophy and getting into more specific action steps. We’re talking about building friction, managing decision fatigue, and finding the "why" that actually keeps you away from the screen.
In this episode, we discuss:
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro: The bold claim about ending screen time
01:10 Strategic Friction: Using lockboxes & blockers to break the habit
07:20 Ending Decision Fatigue: How to create your "Guidelines List"
15:39 The Deep Life: Why "just stopping" doesn't work (inspired by Cal Newport)
17:29 The Core Shift: Digging to your compelling "Why"
19:27 Analog Wins: The psychology of paper, pens, and watches
23:46 Join the Conversation: How to leave a voice note (SpeakPipe)
24:33 A Personal Note: Life update & why the schedule changed
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By Pamela CareyWe’ve all heard the basic advice: turn off notifications, put your phone in grayscale, or just "try harder." But if you’re like me, those tips didn't stick. After years of experimentation and diving into the psychology of habit formation, I’ve finally found a system that is working for me.
In this episode (Part 2 of our series on technology), we are moving past the philosophy and getting into more specific action steps. We’re talking about building friction, managing decision fatigue, and finding the "why" that actually keeps you away from the screen.
In this episode, we discuss:
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro: The bold claim about ending screen time
01:10 Strategic Friction: Using lockboxes & blockers to break the habit
07:20 Ending Decision Fatigue: How to create your "Guidelines List"
15:39 The Deep Life: Why "just stopping" doesn't work (inspired by Cal Newport)
17:29 The Core Shift: Digging to your compelling "Why"
19:27 Analog Wins: The psychology of paper, pens, and watches
23:46 Join the Conversation: How to leave a voice note (SpeakPipe)
24:33 A Personal Note: Life update & why the schedule changed
Resources and Episodes Mentioned:
Leave a voice message here
Newsletter sign up
YouTube - channel
Instagram - we will be posting here soon