Engaged & Divorced

How does your Enneagram type do Self Care?!  Also, what would be your Enneagram candle?  Shaylee and Kiley dive into the Enneagram again today with a fun episode all about YOU!

Time Stamps:

Enneagram 1 - 4:21

Enneagram 2 - 7:04

Enneagram 3 - 9:59

Enneagram 4 - 13:00

Enneagram 5 - 18:00

Enneagram 6 - 22:22

Enneagram 7 - 26:47

Enneagram 8 - 32:09

Enneagram 9 - 36:16

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

In this Deconstruction episode, Kiley and Shaylee answer all the questions you sent in.  Do they still believe in God?  How does it affect Shaylee's parenting when she co-parents with a pastor? This topic had the most questions Shaylee has EVER received! 

*RESOURCES* 

Instagram Accounts - 

https://www.instagram.com/nakedpastor/ 

https://www.instagram.com/thenewevangelicals 

https://www.instagram.com/talkpuritytome/ 

https://www.instagram.com/phildrysdale/ 

https://www.instagram.com/joluehmann/ 

https://www.instagram.com/deconstructiongirl/ 

https://www.instagram.com/deconstructingpurityculture/ 

https://www.instagram.com/drquincee/ 

https://www.instagram.com/reclamationcollective/  

Podcasts - 

Exvangelical Pod 

Ravel Podcast 

Bare Marriage 

The Deconstructionists 

Holy Heretics 

The New Evangelicals Podcast 

Heretic Happy Hour 

Parenting Forward 

The Bible For Normal People  

Books - 

The Shift by Colby Martin 

Faith After Doubt by Brian McLaren 

After Jesus Before Christianity by Erin Vearncombe, Brandon Scott and Hal Taussig 

Bad Theology Kills by Kevin Miguel Garcia 

Do I Stay Christian by Brian McLaren 

Wholehearted Faith by Rachel Held Evans 

Facebook Group -

The New Evangelicals: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1306379649717433

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Shaylee and Kiley both grew up in the Evangelical Christian church and have been deconstructing their faith in their seperate ways for the last few years.  in this episode, they share a little more about their family, their stories, church hurts and pains of Shaylee being in ministry for a decade, and where they stand today.

There will be a part 2 of this episode - stay tuned!

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Shaylee and Kiley pull up dating profiles and share the outlandish things men say -- and do -- while doing a drinking game.

Psychology Today article - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men

Watch this episode on our YouTube channel to see our photos and videos as we discuss the experience!

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Back in November of last year, Shaylee and Kiley went on their very first sister trip to NYC during the week of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade!  It was an experience to remember, and this episode they're sharing all their tips, tricks, and advice if you're planning to go there for yourself!

Watch this episode on our YouTube channel to see our photos and videos as we discuss the experience!

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Kiley is MARRIED!  In this episode we discuss the big day (it was the party of the year), Kiley shares her honeymoon plans, and Shaylee reveals the story of how she threw up... on a first date.  Humiliation much?

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Today we have our very first guest on the pod:  Kiley's fiancé Basil!  They answer the questions you asked, and are just overall adorable for 35 minutes straight.  

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Today, Shaylee opens up one year post-divorce to answer your questions about the divorce.  What made her leave, what she regrets, how the kids took it. A lot of the things shared in this episode haven't been shared before.  

Stay tuned for next week because Kiley's fiance Basil is our very first guest on the pod!

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

Today Kiley and Shaylee partake in their very first drinking game, and share some secrets.

And don't forget... BE AUTHENTICALLY YOU!! :)

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer

In honor of Kiley's wedding being two weeks away in real-time, she shares more of her wedding planning and gives us a behind-the-scenes update into the big day!  Shaylee shares another insane dating story (these men have the AUDACITY) and makes a vow not to date again... we'll see how long this lasts. ;)

We are Kiley and Shaylee, sisters navigating different seasons of life being engaged and divorced.  Let's talk about it ALL - weddings, figuring life out after divorce, dating, and more.

If you prefer, you can watch all our episodes on our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChwxLmofZP7QseZPsz2DGFw

Follow us on instagram @engagedanddivorced & also our individual accounts @heykiley @shayleemeurer