There's about of things going on for us for which we owe gratitude. To be able to breathe alone takes a lot of effort for some who may have all the stuff you want.... Look for the good in every moment because even the bad ones are pregnant with lessons yet to learn... Become who you desire but enjoy the journey to becoming whatever it's that you're becoming. When you let go the bad stuff( regrets, pain, fear, hate, jealousy, greed, etc) we make room for new and potentially better thoughts that generate better feeling to attract better situations...