In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 9s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview singer-songwriter and podcast host Seth Abram about handling conflict as a Type 9. Seth talks about how important time is for 9s in conflict. Everyone also plays Name That Type, where the team gives each Type a mode of transportation.

Find more from Seth - IG: @integratedenneagram Fathoms Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fathoms-an-enneagram-podcast/id1508239925 This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

Ep #74: Enneagram Type 9s & Conflict w/Seth Abram

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Ep #74: Enneagram Type 9s & Conflict w/Seth Abram

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