I am not talking about listening to others but rather listening to the content coming in. It is easy to compare ourselves when we are listening half heartedly. We hear people saying you guys and lumping us in to a category or with a group we may not consciously be a part of or they share a story saying if you do thus and thus you will get these results and so because we aren't listening fully, our subconscious feels like we failed because we didn't get the same results and we feel bad and often don't even know why.

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