I used to believe this falsehood when I was growing up on a council estate in south Wales.
It can be, yet Confidence is a Skill you can Learn and Earn the right to use.
Having confidence is vital for your performance in the work place. Confidence is variable per minute, per hour, per morning, per day. It is controllable but you must earn the right to have it.
Most people think confidence is a natural gift – you have it or you don’t.
If you don’t and you are not one of the blessed, then it is elusive; you would love to have it.
Yet, one of my life discoveries is that “authentic confidence” is a skill which is learnable via:
· Deliberate practice
· Effective coaching
· Expanded awareness
This can be a game-changer for your life and career. You can move to butterfly from caterpillar.
You need to have the audacity and confidence to believe you can achieve break-through targets and goals, allied with the humility to actually do it.
To gain this Winning Enterprise Sales Mindset, you need to:
• ‘Do the Do’ and call high to economic buyers
• Gain executive sponsorship
• Be accountable and get better each week
How confidence can be learned by anyone...let me explain from personal experience.
Confidence is gained by a strange mix in believing you can do something before you have proof i.e. the audacity, added to the humility of showing up and actually do the job, ‘doing the do’.
For instance, I had to believe I could write a book even though I was dyslexic. The odds were stacked against me, but thinking like that did not help.
I believed that I could (the audacity) so then started to write half a page a day (doing the do). Two years later, I published my first book!
No magic - just earned skill.
Right now, why not use your newfound awareness that confidence is a skill and apply it to your mindset and attitude?
Hold yourself accountable. Being accountable means identifying the most important high value activities you need to do each week. For an enterprise sales person, dialogue with key decision makers is up there. Check your accountability at the end of the week- what was the quality and quantity of conversations you had with economic buyers/ decision makers?
Perhaps you need to engage a coach who could help you achieve even more?
I have personally experienced so much wisdom and guidance from mentors and coaches in my life.
I am so grateful that they:
• Showed me new possibilities
• Raised my standards
• Created income opportunities
• Made stellar introductions
• Acted as guides, giving me the courage to explore new fields of skill within my career
What are you missing out on by not having a mentor?
When I refer to mentors, I am also referring to coaches or anyone who can show us an expanded way from our current thinking/skillset. As an example, even though I am an executive coach and very good at negotiation and presentation. I have multiple coaches who expand my perspective. I currently work with a negotiation coach, and a voice and presentation coach.
My overall message this week is that we are all ‘work in progress’! 2020 and 2021 has shown us how we must evolve and adapt, to stay relevant.
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