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Ari [00:03:20] And that can be said about infrastructure, can be said about any of any of these things, right? What am I? My friends that I will be speaking to, his name is AJ Ali. And we're gonna be talking a lot about the systems of health care and how it affects black people more than majority black Latino at-risk populations and groups. He's written a book called Walking while Black Love is the Answer. That love is the answer part stands for and I don't remember exactly. But I'll give you kind of the synopsis or learn about your neighbors. Learn about the people. You're different then. 

Khadevis [00:06:49] And he's just people find it and he's going like, what's that kid like? He that would be a breeze. I'm going, no, bring this thing to him. Boy Scouts. I'll be all right. And he can be proud. He just to understand, like, this doesn't make sense. That's kind of how it is. It's like some some groups and people in the business. They don't want things to be utopian or better and good for why. Who knows? So when we talk about the health care system, we talk about all this different stuff. 

Ari [00:10:09] House everybody? And it probably wouldn't even affect our lifestyle that much. In fact, it probably would make our lifestyle a little bit better. Now, the philosophy is I don't like change. That's the philosophy of some people. I don't like change. I want stagnation. I want to be where we are. Progress is bad. You know, you've heard this progressive's gotta have a bad rap. Progress. How could progress be bad if he can't? If you're not growing, you're dying. Right. So how can progress ever be bad? It's only a thing. It's progress. It's a movement of time. 

Ari [00:11:51] It's time for you to let go, right? That's kind of what we're saying. And we're saying that in a very general way, because most of those people don't exist anymore. Just the beneficiaries of that system, but not the creators of it. So since we made this shit up and we can make it up better, what are some of the. 

Khadevis [00:13:12] These are smart people who are going to vote to not get a raise. When you if you don't vote or you almost have to get a salary, he's what are you going to vote to get there? Great. That's common sense. What a post. What? Whatever may deal with the real world of really issues. They've got an option to vote. They've got a choice to vote to get more money. You're telling me you'd think anyone vote not to. And you're mad because they voted for themselves to get more money.

Khadevis [00:19:32] And I think that's where we're were at that total point now. You can see it is just a matter of if individuals going to still have this level of energy and enthusiasm. Once the pandemics? over. Everything's back to normal. 

Ari [00:19:46] Yeah. Well, I'm hoping that that it'll it'll just get more than just it'll itchin them so much more. You know, it's funny, we had this whole thing a couple months ago, right? This blackness, protests and these things. What do you hear about that stuff nowadays? Not very much, because the explosion dies down fast. But when you stoke a fire and you keep it slow burning and have that fire last forever. And that's kind of that's the analogy that I'm using. I don't want to have that big blast of explosive energy because of a reaction to something. 

Ari [00:20:33] I want to have a premeditated slow burn that creates a lifelong of change. And I think that you do, too. Yeah. And this come at that that you like to be a part of and you're you're reading and running program is awesome. What other charity? You went to Zimbabwe on a specific date

Khadevis [00:24:40] Miracle worthy thing. So did it. Like what? God, how did KD do that? You know. How did he do. What the he he won the lottery. How I played the lottery that's why. You know, now that's an that's an exaggerated example. But my point is, you know. You see. Oh. How was he? You know, I actually sent over a message on LinkedIn. You know, he was like, well, why am I. Well, you know what? I'm just right. And if it works out, then, you know. So most people never make the game winning shot because they never take the game. When you say, how do you go make it if you don't take it? So now go out. Connect with people. Try these things that you might feel that if you don't. If you don't. If you don't know. Succeed. And so at least you try it. But you got to do it. This is not just a quote. This is not like. 

Khadevis [00:29:27] And I learned quickly that they're doing those same times. There's other environments in which if a young lady told a young man the exact same thing. It really meant they weren't. Does she want to go back and watch a movie at one o'clock in the morning? Some people like my welcome. Well, we can't watch the movie tomorrow. Well, watch. We've been dancing, you know, making whatever way. So. So now you're getting those situations. She's you know, one person is taking you on watch a movie, I think. OK. She won't be the. Whatever. 

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Ari&Khadevis3.mp3

Ari [00:00:02] Has it occurred to you that the systems we live by are not designed to get results? We pay for procedures instead of outcomes, focusing on emergencies rather than preventing disease and living a healthy lifestyle. For over 25 years, I've taken care of Olympians, Paralympians, A-list actors and Fortune 1000 companies. If I don't get results, they did not get results. I realized that while powerful people who controlled the system want to keep the status quo. If I were to educate the masses, you would demand change. So I'm taking the gloves off and going after the systems as they are. Join me on my mission to create a new tomorrow as I chat with industry experts. Elite athletes, thought leaders and government officials about how we activate our vision for a better world. We may agree and we may disagree, but I'm not backing down. 

Ari [00:00:51] I'm Ari Gronich and this is. Create a new tomorrow podcast. 

Ari [00:01:03] Welcome back to part three of this interview, if you missed part one or part two. Head back to those previous episodes before you listen to this one. Now, we'll dove right into the conversation from the moment we left off. Thanks again and welcome back. 

Ari [00:01:19] Yeah, you know, it's interesting because I'm a I'm a realist. I see the world as it is, but I'm also an ideological utopian society. You know, I know where I see the world going as well. And what's possible for the world if we step out of our own ways and stop trying to make, you know, like I here make America great again, or it matter if it's whatever it is. Right. Is it the time when we had famine? Is it the dark ages when we had suppression? Is it that, you know, it doesn't matter what is better then that we can't make better in the future. Right. Than it was. Nothing has ever been optimal. Forget it's wise. So we only can make things as optimal as we can see the possible to be. And I'm really big. I don't like doing podcasts where I'm asking you fluffy snow. Yes. You know, relaxed questions that you know the answers to. I want to challenge you to really explore yourself on the on this this media with me. I want to make sure that the guests and the listeners have an experience that is outside of their comfort zone. In some cases, because I'd like to you know, I say pick fights. It's not really pick fights. I like to challenge the status quo. I like to join the systems. We don't have a very good health care system. It kind of sucks and it's the best it's ever been. And it's still kind of sucks in the results that it gets. We don't have a very good political system. Our system is extremely flawed and it's probably the best it's ever been. 

Ari [00:03:16] For what it's been. Right. So. 

Ari [00:03:20] And that can be said about infrastructure, can be said about any of any of these things, right? What am I? My friends that I will be speaking to, his name is AJ Ali. And we're gonna be talking a lot about the systems of health care and how it affects black people more than majority black Latino at-risk populations and groups. He's written a book called Walking while Black Love is the Answer. That love is the answer part stands for and I don't remember exactly. But I'll give you kind of the synopsis or learn about your neighbors. Learn about the people. You're different then. 

Ari [00:04:06] Right. The O is. 

Ari [00:04:12] I don't remember what the O is, the V is volunteer to be part of the solution. Right. And so I was just going to go the L and the V because that's what I remember at the moment. I'll remember the rest as soon as we're off the recording. But you get the point is learn about your neighbors. Well, what would that do for us? What would it do if we started to volunteer to help the people in our community rather than tell them that they're wrong and bad? What would it do for our community relations if we were to shift and change? I know he's a guy who he's owned to professional soccer teams. Played soccer for the Air Force. And was one of the first black reporters in golf. He was told, get out of the sport because he's not wanted there. And then he's walking in his own neighborhood in Baltimore and he's getting followed and guns pulled on him by police for walking in the right and the wrong neighborhood in his neighborhood. 

Ari [00:05:19] And so, you know, this is something like I look at it and I go, OK. So this is what is this is reality. We've got it. So now that we know what reality is, what are the steps that we can take? To change reality to a more optimal. Reality. 

Ari [00:05:43] And that's kind of what he's done with his book. So what would what would your answer to this be? And it doesn't matter. It's not necessarily that particular situation, just life in general or society in general. But if you were to go about the process of taking somebody through what is loving reality. 

Ari [00:06:06] And how do we want reality to be? What would that look like to you. 

Khadevis [00:06:11] I think you. The only thing we can do is we have to live that reality out the best way we can. 

Khadevis [00:06:19] The challenge is there are people who don't want that. 

Khadevis [00:06:25] So what I mean by that is, is that old movie called Mr. Smith Goes to Washington is a great movie. Oh, that's good. It is so good about a politician that goes and becomes like a senator or representative. What I mean. He has this idea that help Boy Scouts is such that you would think everybody would be like you like who don't want to help Boy Scout kids. Yeah. And he brings it up to get vote. 

Khadevis [00:06:49] And he's just people find it and he's going like, what's that kid like? He that would be a breeze. I'm going, no, bring this thing to him. Boy Scouts. I'll be all right. And he can be proud. He just to understand, like, this doesn't make sense. That's kind of how it is. It's like some some groups and people in the business. They don't want things to be utopian or better and good for why. Who knows? So when we talk about the health care system, we talk about all this different stuff. 

Khadevis [00:07:17] It's really simple. It's really our fault. And when you say, well, hold on, it's been a little it's been a little tough. 

Khadevis [00:07:23] Well, here's a question. If we really wanted to. In the U.S., it's just usually us. Could we make it? No. Not one person in us dies of starvation or malnutrition. Yeah, I mean, there's enough food in the U.S. to feed everybody. Like, this is this is this is a fact. This is an absolute fact. Could we make it that even like everyone has shelter, meaning like even if they like a house or somewhere, some form show that is no homeless on the street. Could we make. Yes. It's enough property stuff that it could be done. We put out we're intuitive. We we are industrious enough. We have this out of that to make it happen. So why isn't it happen if someone gives Apple someone was to say, we're going to we're going to everyone. We have to pay to send two pennies more of taxes. And that way, we ensure there's absolutely no homeless in the world, people that go against it. And you know, like we know that to say. And some of the people that would go against it will be people that. They still rich, you will be like, what? What do you watch what? So that's what it is. It's unfortunate. It sucks. So some of these things that haven't changed. Let's be honest. Let's be real. Let's be real. You know, somewhat because people don't want some. Some of the powers that be don't want to chase. You know, that's not a political bias. Just just being. And we allow some of this stuff. 

Ari [00:08:58] Being real. 

Ari [00:08:59] My question is and this goes to what you're saying. So I have I have this philosophy. Right. Silence is a bully's best friend. And my feeling about that is that the people who would benefit the most typically are silenced. By the people who have an agenda or the bullies and the people who. 

Ari [00:09:31] Want to change? Feel like they don't have a voice? 

Khadevis [00:09:37] Yeah. 

Ari [00:09:37] Right. 

Ari [00:09:39] And none of what people feel necessarily is accurate in reality is if we got loud. 

Ari [00:09:51] And. 

Ari [00:09:52] Created a wisdom with that loudness. So meaning we put the learning, we put that into action. 

[00:10:01] Created wisdom with the learning. We could basically feed everybody we could. 

Ari [00:10:09] House everybody? And it probably wouldn't even affect our lifestyle that much. In fact, it probably would make our lifestyle a little bit better. Now, the philosophy is I don't like change. That's the philosophy of some people. I don't like change. I want stagnation. I want to be where we are. Progress is bad. You know, you've heard this progressive's gotta have a bad rap. Progress. How could progress be bad if he can't? If you're not growing, you're dying. Right. So how can progress ever be bad? It's only a thing. It's progress. It's a movement of time. 

Ari [00:10:51] And so here's the thing. And I talk about this in the book. I talk about about it on this podcast is. 

Ari [00:11:00] If we've made this shit up. Can we not make it up better? 

Ari [00:11:08] We created the society the way it is. The people who are the architects of the society really are powerful now and they really like it because they built it. It's their baby. But how many times has somebodies baby? Gotten married and the parent did not like that. The baby was married now. Right. OK. So we're just telling those powers that be. Your baby is getting married. Moving on. Going to grow and make her own family and build her own structures and systems. 

Ari [00:11:51] It's time for you to let go, right? That's kind of what we're saying. And we're saying that in a very general way, because most of those people don't exist anymore. Just the beneficiaries of that system, but not the creators of it. So since we made this shit up and we can make it up better, what are some of the. 

Ari [00:12:12] Philosophies we can move into that are more optimal and effective. 

Khadevis [00:12:21] I mean want to. 

Ari [00:12:22] I'm sorry,. 

Khadevis [00:12:23] My honest answer is probably one no one is going to like. 

Khadevis [00:12:31] OK. You said you said in a gentle way, right? 

Khadevis [00:12:36] The individuals you're talking about, the groups you talk about. They don't respond to gentle. I'm just being real. We try, you know, trying to be gentle is not, you know, unfortunately, I hate to say it. 

Khadevis [00:12:52] I hate, you know, I wish it wasn't this way, but it's the reality that's not gonna. That's not the way it's going to work if there's going to be change. You know, I see it every week. 

Khadevis [00:13:01] I complain about those senators or whatever, whatever, complain about them, voted for themselves to get a pay increase, salary increase. 

Khadevis [00:13:12] These are smart people who are going to vote to not get a raise. When you if you don't vote or you almost have to get a salary, he's what are you going to vote to get there? Great. That's common sense. What a post. What? Whatever may deal with the real world of really issues. They've got an option to vote. They've got a choice to vote to get more money. You're telling me you'd think anyone vote not to. And you're mad because they voted for themselves to get more money. 

Khadevis [00:13:37] Are A group that's investigating themselves. One issue they find themselves innocent. 

Khadevis [00:13:46] I mean, let's just be honest. I'm just trying to be on so what I'm saying is. 

Khadevis [00:13:51] What I'm saying is that, as your question, the only way it will be changed is that we have to be forced. And I don't want to hear. And I agree. Maybe I'm telling. Let me ask you a question. 

Khadevis [00:14:02] When you think about in the world history, the world world. Who do you think are the five most? 

[00:14:09] Loving, friendly, uniting, positive people. If you don't mind, in the world, the five most like ever. Like they bring people together. 

Ari [00:14:20] Like ever. 

Khadevis [00:14:21] Yeah. 

Ari [00:14:22] OK. So I would probably go with Confucius, Buddha, Gandhi, Mother Theresa and Jesus, frankly. 

Khadevis [00:14:32] OK. 

Ari [00:14:33] Jesus. 

Khadevis [00:14:34] All right. So. What happened to hey, Jesus? Jesus. 

Ari [00:14:42] Well, you know, Romans just got pissed off,. 

Khadevis [00:14:48] He got killed right. Right. Right. 

Ari [00:14:50] Yeah. 

Khadevis [00:14:52] What happened to Gandhi. 

Ari [00:14:53] Gandhi. I don't know what happened to Gandhi. Look that up. 

Khadevis [00:14:59] What about Mother Teresa? 

Ari [00:15:01] She died a very happy woman. 

Khadevis [00:15:05] So when you start talking about. The Martin Luther King. You started talking about some of the people. JFK, you start talking about some of the people that tried to make some of the biggiest in past. Evil, evil. See? Did they play a different game? 

Khadevis [00:15:29] They don't go out loud. So. So there are a lot of good people that try to do good things. And then I realized I have a job. You see my realize man, as he was putting my family in danger. 

Khadevis [00:15:45] So that's why I say in order for somebody stop that really great change, you don't have to be forced. I always say that way. 

Ari [00:15:52] I totally I totally get you. Here's here's my only caveat to that. And it's something that that a business friend of mine taught me once. And also, frankly, Buckminster Fuller, who is one of my my mentors. I don't read anything from Bucky. But he said don't go after the system as it is or within the system as it is. Just build something better. Right. Next store. The people will come. Yeah. Yeah. And that's paraphrased. But that's kind of the philosophy that I have is. OK. So who do we know in any given field that's dissatisfied with how that field is choosing to get sub optimal results? And you know, for me, it's the medical field mostly, which includes infrastructure and government because infrastructure is extremely important to health care. But let's just let's just say it's doctors. More and more doctors are stopping to work with insurance companies. They see that it's kind of a losing proposition if they want to actually make their clients and patients healthy. 

Ari [00:17:07] Yeah, they're going away from that. More towards a functional medicine. Integrative approach would surance companies don't pay for the AMA doesn't like at all. 

Ari [00:17:18] In fact, they investigate those people. So here's my thing. One or two people, one hundred people doing this are susceptible to the killing, to the death, to the being attacked. And we've seen that happen in the industry. But a thousand. Ten thousand. 

Ari [00:17:40] However, many of us there are getting loud. Not being quiet. Not allowing the insurance companies to do the rule that they have to have the over site that they have. And just getting loud. We have this great platform of YouTube and podcasts go on. 

Ari [00:18:02] And you're starting to hear people now just whispering pieces, a few people loud. But those people are now considered considered conspiracy. Right. But what happens when it's ten thousand? 

Ari [00:18:16] No longer are you the conspiracy theories. You are the new movement. And that's what I want to create. I want the revolution to be televised. And I want it to be a little more gentle than what we've had to see in the past, because we haven't had the media of YouTube's and podcasting and so on that can get words out in a much more gentle way. 

Ari [00:18:42] We had to do massive marches and protests. But we have the ability now. To do it differently. 

Ari [00:18:52] And what I'd like to see is people like you, people like me, people that have the the knowledge and the wisdom and are have been playing it in our small little caves. 

Ari [00:19:07] Become. Come out of those caves and be loud and really blast to the world that there is a possibility that something else than what is could be way, way, way better. 

Ari [00:19:22] And we're just about to roll it out. You know, slowly but surely so that we can live in this better world. 

Khadevis [00:19:32] And I think that's where we're were at that total point now. You can see it is just a matter of if individuals going to still have this level of energy and enthusiasm. Once the pandemics? over. Everything's back to normal. 

Ari [00:19:46] Yeah. Well, I'm hoping that that it'll it'll just get more than just it'll itchin them so much more. You know, it's funny, we had this whole thing a couple months ago, right? This blackness, protests and these things. What do you hear about that stuff nowadays? Not very much, because the explosion dies down fast. But when you stoke a fire and you keep it slow burning and have that fire last forever. And that's kind of that's the analogy that I'm using. I don't want to have that big blast of explosive energy because of a reaction to something. 

Ari [00:20:33] I want to have a premeditated slow burn that creates a lifelong of change. And I think that you do, too. Yeah. And this come at that that you like to be a part of and you're you're reading and running program is awesome. What other charity? You went to Zimbabwe on a specific date. 

Khadevis [00:20:57] Was it up to the Zimbabwe trip was specifically with the U.S. State Department, the sports envoys, US sports envoy to the embassy in ah, in Zimbabwe. So I love doing that. I'm really trying to do more of those. I can't. I'm a university co-ordinator with athletes for a whole, at least for hope as an organization out of D.C. And I've helped them kind of implement the programs in English at LSU and also now at Ohio State. So those those two things I was with the each foundation, which which I was a thin philanthropic advisory, essentially. I went out and found no recognized nonprofit organizations that probably maybe needed some some donations and some grants and some moneys. And I would. Give them money and stuff like that. But anyway, so just, you know, just doing those things right now. You. I think the energy I'm a big vibration and energy person. I think the energy in the universe, even though we're going through this pandemic, I think it's an interesting time is a good time to pivot. And it's a good time to take risks because, I mean, right now you take a risk and it don't work. I mean, what people say, I was wish it didn't work, going a pandemic, right? You know, like everybody's kind of struggling right now. So it's like, why not? But the last thing you want to do is for me personally is to do what everybody else is doing and complain and mope and why. So what I tell people right now, the A's I'm the message I'm getting at is in a time of uncertainty, be certain in yourself, in a time of uncertainty. Be setting yourself a lot of uncertainty out there right now and you can't control them. And that you're doing what you can do is be certain in yourself. And if you can't have, you're not able to be certain yourself. And that's the way you need to reflect on why can't you be right? I would have. What have you been doing all this time? You can't be certain of yourself. What do you do when you wake up in the morning? Why you won't tick tock. I mean, why do you now say, like, come on, Bill, some certainty in yourself? So it's obvious. Certain you can be certain yourself. So that's why I'm at now. And like I said, I think I think you and I got to do this again. I got it. I've got to. 

Ari [00:22:59] Absolutely. Give us while we wrap this up. Three actionable steps for the audience that they can do tomorrow and implement in their lives to change the world. Create a new tomorrow on activate their vision. 

Khadevis [00:23:15] All right. So first one is get active rather than running with his logo. You have to get active. Our bodies, our bodies are all connected. 

Khadevis [00:23:25] It is mind, body and soul. It's all connected. So by moving one way or the other, it really does. It really does. Trance transfer energy. We have a certain amount of energy that we have. And by moving, we're able to get that energy more moving. We put it into any other project. So get active reading, write fast some that you're interested in and learn more about it. Like, you know, whatever, you know, whatever the subject matter may be, whatever industry you may be in. 

Khadevis [00:23:56] And, you know, just reading. If you don't. If you don't. If you don't draw your attention, throw it away and get another you know, just just find something to read because it might expand. It never goes back to its original form. So once you learn some, you're able to share that with others. And then the last thing is, you know, connect with people. I mean, we always say God perform miracles to people, you know. Right now, you would think, oh, no more miracles. I'm a guy I used to do this and that and all these miracles. And I'm like B.S. Gospel. Performing miracles is just the way that you perceive. You know, how how in the world. And this is why I tell people how in the world are you going to create a miracle when you're not doing miracle worthy things. So I'm always trying some stuff that I might not be able to do because I'm I'm trying. 

Khadevis [00:24:40] Miracle worthy thing. So did it. Like what? God, how did KD do that? You know. How did he do. What the he he won the lottery. How I played the lottery that's why. You know, now that's an that's an exaggerated example. But my point is, you know. You see. Oh. How was he? You know, I actually sent over a message on LinkedIn. You know, he was like, well, why am I. Well, you know what? I'm just right. And if it works out, then, you know. So most people never make the game winning shot because they never take the game. When you say, how do you go make it if you don't take it? So now go out. Connect with people. Try these things that you might feel that if you don't. If you don't. If you don't know. Succeed. And so at least you try it. But you got to do it. This is not just a quote. This is not like. 

Khadevis [00:25:31] OK, sounds good, is it? No. I mean, literally, if you're a young guy right now, you're single and it's just growing. It's hot. You see every day at the gym, you know, just go up to us. And you know what? I know every bite until you get. Which are beautiful. And I just want to let you know, I had to get that out. 

Khadevis [00:25:48] No disrespect and keep it moving. Hey, you know, she might say forget you. But that's the at least you. Yes. You've told her, you know. Oh, whatever. If you want to start a company, you want to run a marathon, you know, whatever that may be. Try. I mean, we can't do a freaking pandemic right now. But, you know, its the twilight zone. 

Ari [00:26:07] It's a very odd world. We're living in. 

Khadevis [00:26:09] The twilight zone. 

Khadevis [00:26:10] Kobe Bryant basin freakin helicopter crash accident. We have a pandemic. They shouldn't. And our last voice was no spoilers this year. You got unemployment. You got freakin fires going. Oh, here you go. This is this is what we call right now some crazy times. So what I'm saying is live. You touch the stuff. You bet. Well, think they wait for the next life. This is this is the time to me again. This is not a political favor. Well, do you really think I don't take this the wrong way? Is not. Look, Donald Trump is president. Again, that's not I'm not saying that to be good, bad, right or wrong. I'm just saying like. 

Ari [00:26:58] Had predicted that in the 80s. 

Khadevis [00:27:01] Yeah. But my point is, who would have revery, you know, Salai who would ever thought like that's just one example. I'm just saying there's a lot of those examples. Going on in the world right now, you're not I mean, New Zealand has a female president. 

Khadevis [00:27:18] Germany has. You know, I can jack into a million of those. So my point is a man like, don't give me this. Miracles will happen. I'll give you this. 

Khadevis [00:27:26] I mean, I get enough Jay Z married to Beyounce all right. 

Khadevis [00:27:33] Oh, if Jay Z can marry Beyounce we can do anything because I mean. Thanks. Somebody really get my point. I'm not joking. I'm being serious at the same time. But, you know, here is what it is. I ah, it's been great. Bobby, I academia's on everything. 

Ari [00:27:49] Yeah. So how can they get a hold of you and you know, with your charity, what, what could they do to be of support. 

Khadevis [00:27:56] You know, we do take donations because what I do is I go to Boys and Girls Clubs, I go the United Way, I go to different countries. Listen, Zimbobwey, when I go to those places and I provide information, we take for granted that. The information we have would like to say go to college, like a lot of a lot of people don't know that they don't have that information. You don't know how to do it fast, but they don't understand how to do to sign up for the incident, like clearing a house. So little small stuff. The information that we're able to provide for them to take the AC, AICTE and SHC, all of that out. A little smart how to how to get in contact with a coach on the Internet. So we provide my organization provides those types of things, diversity, equality and inclusion. I speak about that. But in a real man, what I mean by that is a lot of the issues that we see going on in the world is not always because people are just bad. It's because you spoke about this environment, croi, the environment I came from. If I went to a party and I was dancing with a girl and we were dancing, partying, they got to one o'clock. 

Khadevis [00:29:06] And she said, you know, let's go back. Let's go back to my place in. Watch a movie. 

Khadevis [00:29:14] It was one o'clock. We've been dancing, partying. You know me like. In that environment, I was there years ago that I was, you know, going to think something. Right. 

Ari [00:29:26] Right. 

Khadevis [00:29:27] And I learned quickly that they're doing those same times. There's other environments in which if a young lady told a young man the exact same thing. It really meant they weren't. Does she want to go back and watch a movie at one o'clock in the morning? Some people like my welcome. Well, we can't watch the movie tomorrow. Well, watch. We've been dancing, you know, making whatever way. So. So now you're getting those situations. She's you know, one person is taking you on watch a movie, I think. OK. She won't be the. Whatever. 

Khadevis [00:29:56] And then that is what I think is. These things are things that need to be talked about. When you say bad, what is it? 

Khadevis [00:30:07] What does it mean bad? Does it mean good? You say doll. Was it me bad? Why can't you say certain words? OK. We got right now that's a big issue. Why can't that one, his friend say is we're innocent and say that because I mean, honey is not a bad word. Hey, honey, you know what? I can't call my friend's wife, honey. And he if I call her. Do you get mad? Was like, honey, it's not a bad word. We ask here. People say, honey all the time. I'm a man of faith. I've heard you now calling each other honey. So why? Because context becomes important. And not only context, also relationship, the relationship you have with that person, even though the words my bad and even the women's. I know someone in the column told each other the B word Maton and they call a best friend conjoining. It never occurred to me. To be going to Europe and then they go, Wow. And then I said, well, I'll call each other to be right on time now because I understand. Context and see, these are things that need to be explained. And that's what I do, my reading life. I go to organizations and explain. Those things. And then in a real way, though, not a politically necessary, but in a real way. Oh, you know what? I get it now. Yeah, they do say that word and he wraps that word and sings it. And then they do it together, they say together. And yeah, maybe I would want to say it, but now I understand our relationship and such in which I can say the context, not the same. 

Ari [00:31:38] Right. Well, you know, I totally appreciate. All of the time that you've been able to spend. I know we went way, way over the normal. So I'm just going to wrap it up. If you guys want to get a hold of Khadevis. 

Ari [00:31:58] You can just go and find him on Twitter, Instagram, probably YouTube, but Khadevis Robinson at everything dot com. And thank you so much. And this has been another episode of Create a New Tomorrow with Ari Gronich. We look forward to having you join us next time. Thank you so much. 

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