So what do I mean ladies when I say Stay in your Lane. It simply means mind your business. It is a metaphor in which  driving is used as an example. For your own safety as well as others, you have to stay in your lane sis....same goes for boundaries.

With Boundaries, we have to set them, stand firm on them, then stay in our lane. Veering out of our lanes can defeat the whole purpose of even having Boundaries and two things will definitely have us stepping out of our lanes....one is comparison and the other is justification. Black Girls setting boundaries is us setting limits to our emotional, mental, and physical capacity. Staying in your lane sis is going to help you prioritize yourself,  your boundaries, & your well-being.