Married and Connected

Ep 108: Vows That Matter pt 3- In Sickness and in Health, Forsaking All Others, As long as we both shall live


Listen Later

In this powerful episode of Married and Connected, certified marriage coach Kameran Alareqi takes you deep into the meaning behind some of the most sacred marriage vows—“in sickness and in health,” “forsaking all others,” and “as long as we both shall live.” These aren’t just ceremonial words—they’re the foundation of a resilient, connected, and enduring relationship.

We explore:

  • What these vows truly mean in everyday married life

  • Why so many couples unintentionally break them

  • The devastating impact of emotional detachment, infidelity, and lack of support during illness

  • How mindset, willpower, and daily choices are the real glue that hold marriages together

  • Inspiring stories of couples who’ve faced enormous challenges and emerged stronger


You’ll walk away with encouragement, clarity, and practical ways to start honoring these vows more intentionally—starting today.


Key Takeaways:

    • Why 6x more marriages end when one partner becomes seriously ill
    • The role of emotional availability and mental discipline in staying committed

    • What it really looks like to “cherish” your spouse in the middle of struggle

    • Why forsaking all others goes far beyond physical infidelity

    • Daily tools to reconnect and recommit when the vows feel hard to keep


    Mentioned in This Episode:

    • Connected & Committed Course: A 6-week self-study experience to help you and your spouse rebuild trust, emotional safety, and lasting connection

    • The Gottman Institute’s research on enduring marriages

    • The Gottman Card Decks app for daily connection

    • Real-life marriage coaching stories and insights


    Perfect For:

    • Couples wanting to deepen their connection

    • Individuals questioning their ability to keep hard vows

    • Anyone feeling alone in the emotional labor of marriage

    • Those healing after betrayal or distance in their relationship

    Listen now and rediscover the power of the promises you made. Your marriage is worth it.

    💌 Interested in private coaching with Kameran? Only 1 spot available until October. Learn more & apply

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    Married and ConnectedBy Kameran Al-Areqi

    • 5
    • 5
    • 5
    • 5
    • 5

    5

    11 ratings


    More shows like Married and Connected

    View all
    The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

    The Mel Robbins Podcast

    20,454 Listeners