Coming Out Late

Ep. #110: Sexual Attraction, Sexual Energy & Sexual Desire, Part 1, (Replay)


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In this episode, Robin invites Samantha Fox back to her Show. Samantha is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist AND Lesbian Curiosity Coach. Today, they talk about the dynamic flow of our sexual attraction and desires…and SO much more!

In this episode, you will learn…

  • What IS “dynamic flow”?
  • How does dynamic flow affect my sexual attraction and desires?
  • What is YOUR sexual energy? And why is sexual energy important?
  • What is a stone-top? A stone-bottom? A switchy? And why is it important to know what YOU are?
  • What it means to pick the best ‘external partner’ versus the best ‘internal partner’.
  • How does ‘compulsory heterosexuality’ affect how we feel about our own sexual energy? What does society teach us to think and feel?
  • That there really are lots of ways to be a sexual human.
  • To think about, “...What am I attracted to? Androgynous women? Women with masc-energy? Women with fem-energy? Something in between?”
  • Why “vulnerability” is vital to great a great flow of sexual energy between you and your partner.
  • Why communicating about your sexual desires with your partner is critical to a healthy sex life.
  • That sexual energy and sexual desire shouldn’t be “heavy” topics; have fun, play, experiment and explore these sides of you.
  • The importance of doing the work on ourselves regarding “internalized homophobia”!
  • Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation for all the time and love and energy she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass 

Links to resources:

SAMANTHA FOX:

Website: https://www.curiousquestioningandcomingout.com

Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesbiancuriositycoach

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lesbiancuriositycoach/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCugZWOUuPKEtdXQndioSbYQ

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