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Ep. 111: The Biggest Lie in Self Help - Adham Chalabi
Adham Chalabi | Master Coach, Researcher, Thought Leader, and Philosophy Nerd Turned Life Coach
✦ Holomovement Purpose Lab ✦
What if your purpose is not what feels good, but what tells the truth?
In this episode of the Awaken Your Purpose Podcast, Sharon Clark sits down with Adham Chalabi, a philosophy nerd turned life coach who spent years in kitchens before learning how to help people sort out their minds instead of their menus.
Adham is a master coach, researcher, and thought leader dedicated to uncovering the deeper structures of the human psyche, guiding people to set their hearts ablaze, push past their limits, and get honest enough to meet the person underneath the mask.
This conversation goes straight for the nerve. Adham challenges the idea that purpose is simply about following your bliss. Instead, he points to the places we avoid: the burnout, the breakup, the disruption, the crack in the old self. According to Adham, purpose is the ultimate expression of who you are authentically, and sometimes the doorway is not pleasure. Sometimes it is discomfort with a flashlight.
Together, Sharon and Adham explore truth, responsibility, skepticism, community, personality, procrastination, and the strange courage it takes to stop lying to yourself. This is not fluffy purpose talk. It is purpose with teeth, humor, shadow, chaos, order, and a very honest look at what happens when you finally decide to live from the real thing.
✦ Enter the Lab ✦
📚 Browse the research, books, tools + resources:
https://www.lightnet.org/labs/purpose
🔎 Search the archives:
https://www.holomovement.net/awakenyourpurposepodcast
🧭 Take the quiz + find your stage:
https://www.lightnet.org/purpose/quiz
📝 Found your purpose? Add your data + insights:
https://www.lightnet.org/labs/purpose?view=my-map
✦ Guest Bio ✦
Adham Chalabi is a master coach, researcher, thought leader, and philosophy nerd turned life coach. After years spent in kitchens, he now helps people sort out the inner architecture of their minds, identities, patterns, and purpose.
Adham describes himself as certified in lots, allergic to fluff, and powered by humor. His work explores authenticity, personality, truth, responsibility, and what it means to live from the deepest expression of who you are.
✦ Guest Links ✦
Adham Chalabi:
https://www.instagram.com/captain_adham/
✦ Interviewed by Sharon Clark ✦
Sharon Clark is a cancer life coach, bookkeeper, radio host, podcaster, and core member of the LightNet team. As a cancer life coach, Sharon helps people navigate diagnosis, treatment, and life after cancer with clarity, strength, and a belief in their power to shape their future.
Sharon also co-hosts Holy Shiftballs with Bethany Shelton, a podcast built on expansion and learning through laughter. Together, they interview people about the “Holy Shiftball” moments that changed their lives and led them to living their purpose.
Sharon Clark:
https://www.yourtransformationcoach.ca/
✦ Time Codes ✦
00:00 Sharon introduces the Purpose Lab and Adham Chalabi
01:54 Purpose as the expression of your authentic self
03:09 The modern-day explorer
04:14 Does your purpose change over time?
05:53 The expression of purpose versus the underlying thread
06:11 Why Adham does not simply “follow your bliss”
08:30 Disruption as the break of the old self
09:28 Why numbing pain wastes the lesson
10:05 Deep listening on the other side of the crack
11:00 Challenges as opportunities to learn who you are
11:50 How relationships change when you live more honestly
13:28 Why authentic community gives sanity signals
14:45 Asking for honest feedback
16:31 Skepticism as a creative destructive force
18:42 Getting out of your own way
20:08 Personality, procrastination, and building systems
21:36 Falling to the level of your personality
22:55 Speak the truth or at least do not lie
23:54 Paying attention to the truth inside your words
26:53 Honesty as a pathway to purpose
27:58 What happens when people become more truthful
29:45 Speaking truth with kindness
31:54 Responsibility, meaning, and purpose
33:31 The call to adventure and why we reject it
35:35 The shadow side of responsibility
36:31 Chaos, order, and the birth of something new
37:36 Closing reflections
✦ Our Mission ✦
Thank you for joining us today. Our goal is to help you gather the courage to identify your passion and live your purpose for the sake of yourself and for the sake of us all.
The Awaken Your Purpose Podcast is a collaboration between Holomovement and LightNet. Through a multi-year research project and 100+ interviews, we are mapping the patterns, stages, and methods that help people discover and live their purpose.
✦ Listen to the Awaken Your Purpose Podcast ✦
🍎 Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/awaken-your-purpose/id1746656881
🎧 Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/1MfzpoYO4V0CvcohVNIhg4
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Adham Chalabi | Master Coach, Researcher, Thought Leader, and Philosophy Nerd Turned Life Coach
✦ Holomovement Purpose Lab ✦
What if your purpose is not what feels good, but what tells the truth?
In this episode of the Awaken Your Purpose Podcast, Sharon Clark sits down with Adham Chalabi, a philosophy nerd turned life coach who spent years in kitchens before learning how to help people sort out their minds instead of their menus.
Adham is a master coach, researcher, and thought leader dedicated to uncovering the deeper structures of the human psyche, guiding people to set their hearts ablaze, push past their limits, and get honest enough to meet the person underneath the mask.
This conversation goes straight for the nerve. Adham challenges the idea that purpose is simply about following your bliss. Instead, he points to the places we avoid: the burnout, the breakup, the disruption, the crack in the old self. According to Adham, purpose is the ultimate expression of who you are authentically, and sometimes the doorway is not pleasure. Sometimes it is discomfort with a flashlight.
Together, Sharon and Adham explore truth, responsibility, skepticism, community, personality, procrastination, and the strange courage it takes to stop lying to yourself. This is not fluffy purpose talk. It is purpose with teeth, humor, shadow, chaos, order, and a very honest look at what happens when you finally decide to live from the real thing.
✦ Enter the Lab ✦
📚 Browse the research, books, tools + resources:
https://www.lightnet.org/labs/purpose
🔎 Search the archives:
https://www.holomovement.net/awakenyourpurposepodcast
🧭 Take the quiz + find your stage:
https://www.lightnet.org/purpose/quiz
📝 Found your purpose? Add your data + insights:
https://www.lightnet.org/labs/purpose?view=my-map
✦ Guest Bio ✦
Adham Chalabi is a master coach, researcher, thought leader, and philosophy nerd turned life coach. After years spent in kitchens, he now helps people sort out the inner architecture of their minds, identities, patterns, and purpose.
Adham describes himself as certified in lots, allergic to fluff, and powered by humor. His work explores authenticity, personality, truth, responsibility, and what it means to live from the deepest expression of who you are.
✦ Guest Links ✦
Adham Chalabi:
https://www.instagram.com/captain_adham/
✦ Interviewed by Sharon Clark ✦
Sharon Clark is a cancer life coach, bookkeeper, radio host, podcaster, and core member of the LightNet team. As a cancer life coach, Sharon helps people navigate diagnosis, treatment, and life after cancer with clarity, strength, and a belief in their power to shape their future.
Sharon also co-hosts Holy Shiftballs with Bethany Shelton, a podcast built on expansion and learning through laughter. Together, they interview people about the “Holy Shiftball” moments that changed their lives and led them to living their purpose.
Sharon Clark:
https://www.yourtransformationcoach.ca/
✦ Time Codes ✦
00:00 Sharon introduces the Purpose Lab and Adham Chalabi
01:54 Purpose as the expression of your authentic self
03:09 The modern-day explorer
04:14 Does your purpose change over time?
05:53 The expression of purpose versus the underlying thread
06:11 Why Adham does not simply “follow your bliss”
08:30 Disruption as the break of the old self
09:28 Why numbing pain wastes the lesson
10:05 Deep listening on the other side of the crack
11:00 Challenges as opportunities to learn who you are
11:50 How relationships change when you live more honestly
13:28 Why authentic community gives sanity signals
14:45 Asking for honest feedback
16:31 Skepticism as a creative destructive force
18:42 Getting out of your own way
20:08 Personality, procrastination, and building systems
21:36 Falling to the level of your personality
22:55 Speak the truth or at least do not lie
23:54 Paying attention to the truth inside your words
26:53 Honesty as a pathway to purpose
27:58 What happens when people become more truthful
29:45 Speaking truth with kindness
31:54 Responsibility, meaning, and purpose
33:31 The call to adventure and why we reject it
35:35 The shadow side of responsibility
36:31 Chaos, order, and the birth of something new
37:36 Closing reflections
✦ Our Mission ✦
Thank you for joining us today. Our goal is to help you gather the courage to identify your passion and live your purpose for the sake of yourself and for the sake of us all.
The Awaken Your Purpose Podcast is a collaboration between Holomovement and LightNet. Through a multi-year research project and 100+ interviews, we are mapping the patterns, stages, and methods that help people discover and live their purpose.
✦ Listen to the Awaken Your Purpose Podcast ✦
🍎 Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/awaken-your-purpose/id1746656881
🎧 Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/1MfzpoYO4V0CvcohVNIhg4
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