Why Not Both is an exploration of how our multiple passions shape our identity, hosted by musician and therapist Pam Shaffer and produced by writer and photographer Laura Studarus.  For our fifth season, we partnered up with Under The Radar to explore the lives of musicians, writers, actors, and creatives.

As a sexual content creator, columnist, author and all round brilliant lady of the internet, Stoya has become a rare sort of artist, both venerated and simultaneously accessible. Her followers come to her not just with adoration but with the genuine desire for connection and advise. We chatted about where to draw the line between education and entertainment in the sexual spheres along with the importance of mental health advocacy and support for creators of all kinds all while discussing the finer points of glueing cat hair to your face to amuse your friends during the early days of quarantine. 

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