This week I am speaking to playing the victim and the common reasons I see why people struggle to break out of the victim cycle. 

The complaining, the blaming, the dramatising... we've all been there and I'm sure we all know someone who shows this behaviour too and that's actually okay! There is often a deeper reason as to why people unconsciously play the victim and I'm sharing it all with you in this episode. 

Often in our lives, when we play the damsel in distress card, that's when we get the most love, validation and attention from others. Love is one of our core needs as humans and if we aren't meeting our own needs, we start to seek that outside of ourselves. If we experience a lack of love in our lives, we will unconsciously manipulate our behaviour to ensure that we are getting that love, attention and validation elsewhere.

Enjoy! x