Our first guest of 2022 is the one and only, Nakita Vang! We think you’ll immediately feel the warmth and honesty that she embodies. Nakita shared her experiences and reflections about relationships, self-love, single-hood, how we show up and much more. She also helped us understand each other more, something we didn’t expect but it just goes to show how amazing Nakita is. We hope you enjoy all the gems and laughs we shared with Nakita.
**We apologize for the echos. You also may want to turn the volume down for this episode, we got a little loud and excited!
WHERE TO FIND NAKITA
Facebook: https://x.facebook.com/nakitacvang/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nakitavang/
Blog: https://www.nakitavang.com/
Newest Youtube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vx3GcW6oqEw&ab_channel=NakitaVang
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Music Production: LAZYASSKID
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03:25 - How would you describe yourself as a partner?
04:12 - From your past relationships, is there anything you sacrificed to make it work?
06:29 - Were there any examples growing up that taught you how to be in a relationship?
12:38 - Did you ever feel like you lost a sense of self?
18:08 - How did you pick up the pieces of your identity after your relationships ended?
23:21 - How did you cultivate love and happiness from within?
30:05 - Discussing being in a relationship vs being single
35:54 - How will you maintain your sense of self in your future relationships?
38:15 - Do you have any past tendencies/behaviors that you fear will carry into future relationships?
41:46 - Charlotte & Thony reflect on their similarities with Nakita
45:56 - How does creating stories of others rob you of the present moment?
53:40 - Nakita reflects on what it’s like to have an anxious mind while in a relationship
1:05:00 - What are you unlearning about relationships with romantic partners and yourself?
1:06:55 - What are the qualities you’re looking for in a future partner?
1:10:28 - How to keep up with Nakita’s work