Most men are terrible at asking for what they need. From their friends. From their wives. From anyone. In this episode, I try to draw a straight line from a concept every jiu jitsu practitioner knows — ego — to what's quietly breaking down in men's relationships. The guy who won't tap on the mat and the guy who won't speak up at home are the same man. This episode is about what it costs to stay silent, why the conversations most men are avoiding are the one's that actually matter, and what it looks like to lead without the ego getting in the way.