Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

00:30 How do revenge fantasies show up?

02:00 Eventually we will get stuck in the revenge fantasy

02:20 Why do we have revenge fantasies?

02:40 Validation

02:50 Acknowledgement and empathy

03:05 Wanting to feel chosen

03:50 Revenge fantasies are normal

05:00 Why do we get revenge fantasies?

07:00 But doesn't wanting to prove someone wrong drive you?

07:40 The cost of the fantasy

09:00 The real power move

10:00 No longer playing the game

10:15 Practical steps

14:45 Closing thoughts

16:20 Outro

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