Dear Mary,

I’m struggling with all the violence in the world especially aimed at Black People.  I thought I was always aware of my white privilege but am learning I have a lot to learn.  I always felt that my husband was the same as me but lately we’ve been having so many arguments over Black Lives Matter vs. All Lives Matter.  I’m completely stunned that he doesn’t get it and worse yet, doesn’t seem to want to get it.  It’s really making me question our whole relationship.  I’m not sure I want to be with someone who is so ignorant and callous to human life. When is something a definitely deal-breaker?

Signed,

Is This Grounds for Divorce