Break Free with Becky

Ep. 13 | Face Your Fear, Said the Clown!


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The greatest lesson I ever learned, I learned from a clown.

In this episode, I'm sharing one of those moments where fear took over—heart racing, body shaking, mind screaming “run!” It's one of most transformational stories from my life: the night I came face-to-face with one of my biggest fears at a Halloween haunted house nearly 20 years ago. At one point, I literally ran screaming into the bushes like a terrified child (I was 28 years old, by the way). Through this hilarious (and honestly pretty embarrassing) story, I'll show you how facing fear head-on can completely transform your life. You're not going to want to miss it. 

Here's what you'll learn

  • How I faced my fear of clowns
  • How my life opened up because I did
  • How your brain is lying to you about danger
  • What you're really afraid of (It's not what you think)
  • How avoidance shrinks your life
  • My technique for managing "the chemical whoosh" (fear)
  • How to bring fear along without letting it drive your decisions


If You Find Yourself...

  • Avoiding situations because you're afraid of how you'll feel
  • Making your life smaller and smaller to stay comfortable
  • Saying no to opportunities because fear is in the driver's seat
  • Panicking about feeling panic (fear of fear itself)
  • Convinced you "just can't handle" certain situations or feelings
  • Missing out on experiences with friends and family because of fear

...this episode is for you.


The Fears I Talk About

  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of judgment or rejection
  • Fear of being alone
  • Fear of not being good enough
  • Fear of social situations
  • Fear of public speaking
  • And yes, my fear of clowns (and cobwebs, and fish, and the pillow game, and...)


Resources I Mention

  • "Mikey and the Dragon" by Jocko Willink - The book I read to my daughter about fears. 
  • How to Get Unstuck - My free video series to help you start getting traction in your life today. 
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Break Free with BeckyBy Becky Garner