I talked in one of my episodes about coming out in layers. This episode touches on a separate layer that I didn't really consider until Hannah reached out on instagram. It has to do with appearance and presentation. Looking back I can see where I started making changes in my aesthetic. Subtle changes that eventually lead to my tomboyish, masculine lady that also likes to throw on some mascara and fill in the brows. I don't consider myself to be particularly fashionable, but I enjoy a good button up WAY more than I did two years ago. I have always had more masculine energy and I feel like I'm finally in a place where my outward appearance matches that. 

I've seen my friends have both subtle and incredibly drastic changes in their appearance and presentation after coming out, but the thing I have loved witnessing the most is seeing the INCREDIBLE increase in confidence that comes with wearing clothes that you like and that you find yourself attractive in. Feeling like you need a new wardrobe? I say GO FOR IT. 

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