It's My Pleasure

Ep. 142: The Importance of Developing Desire & How To Do It


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Have you wanted to improve your sex life and just noticed that you honestly don’t have that much desire FOR it? So you get stuck, like how am I actually supposed to make this better if I can’t even get in the mood to start with? Wanting sex, not feeling tired for it or not being in the mood seem to be the main hindrances for most women in having a more pleasurable sex life. Like I want to really want it, but how? Don’t worry, I got you. Desire is one of the most fascinating topics for me and one I absolutely LOVE studying both scientifically and with my clients and find new ways to think about it and approach it. You might also be wondering if developing more desire is even worth it and spoiler alert, not only is it a skill you will look forward to developing, but it is wildly important for you well-being and beyond.

What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
  • How our socialization around desire will help you understand why this isn’t a skill most women have.
  • The difference between desirability and desire and how they influence one another.
  • Understanding the type of desire is to help you gather information, not dictate what’s possible.
  • 3 steps to help you begin developing more desire right now
  • Why desire is a skill set worth working on and the impactful impact it has beyond the bedroom.
Featured on the Show:
  • It’s My Pleasure episode #99 https://www.daniellesavory.com/blog/103-the-411-on-foreplay%2F
  • Undressed: new course all about YOUR pleasure. https://www.daniellesavory.com/undressed
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