It's My Pleasure

Ep. 143: When You Don't Feel Sexy


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Have you ever thought “Ugh I just don’t feel sexy” or something along those lines and it has kept you from getting it on?! Yup, me too. I think we all have before. Not feeling good in our bodies or feeling confident about our bodies is a complete desire killer. But it doesn’t have to be, in fact the reason this even shows up is because of the way we learned about sex and what we taught about our bodies, especially in the realm of desirability.

This inevitably becomes one more way we inadvertently keep ourselves from feeling good. Let’s change that. In this episode you will learn how to rewire this mental obstacle and take actionable steps to never having your thoughts about your body keep your from enjoying some sensual pleasure.

What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
  • How our socialization regarding what sex is all about, has us measuring up our body in the first place.
  • Why acknowledgement of why this is showing up is the first step in our changing it.
  • The ways perfectionism, reward and beauty standards keep us from enjoying sensual pleasure.
  • The two relationships you want to focus on changing to prevent this from happening in the future.
  • A strategy and actionable steps to take for next time this inevitable pops up.
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