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Authenticity is often celebrated as courage.
But what happens when you share something real… and it isn’t met?
Not with criticism.
Not with disagreement.
Just silence.
In this episode of Nancy & Nicole: Real Life, RealTalk — The Stories We Tell Ourselves, we explore the moments when vulnerability doesn’t land the way we hoped.
Those moments when you:
• share something honest
• think you’ve made a connection
• expect resonance
…and instead get a subject change, a quiet room, or no response at all.
Nancy introduces the concept of the “unchanging self” and how practicing authenticity often increases vulnerability — which makes those quiet moments feel even louder.
Nicole shares the real experience of putting yourself out there in work and relationships and sometimes driving homewondering if anything actually landed.
Together we unpack the powerful stories our brains create when we don’t understand someone else’s reaction — and why most of the time those stories say more about us than they do about reality.
Because the story you just made up about someone else’s reaction?
It probably has very little to do with you.
By Nancy Chapin & Nicole ManginaAuthenticity is often celebrated as courage.
But what happens when you share something real… and it isn’t met?
Not with criticism.
Not with disagreement.
Just silence.
In this episode of Nancy & Nicole: Real Life, RealTalk — The Stories We Tell Ourselves, we explore the moments when vulnerability doesn’t land the way we hoped.
Those moments when you:
• share something honest
• think you’ve made a connection
• expect resonance
…and instead get a subject change, a quiet room, or no response at all.
Nancy introduces the concept of the “unchanging self” and how practicing authenticity often increases vulnerability — which makes those quiet moments feel even louder.
Nicole shares the real experience of putting yourself out there in work and relationships and sometimes driving homewondering if anything actually landed.
Together we unpack the powerful stories our brains create when we don’t understand someone else’s reaction — and why most of the time those stories say more about us than they do about reality.
Because the story you just made up about someone else’s reaction?
It probably has very little to do with you.