In this episode, Dr. Kashey addresses a fundamental yet often overlooked aspect of human behavior: the battle between control and influence. With his trademark wit and wisdom, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the negative consequences of an obsession with control and the benefits of shifting our perspective to influence. He shares how thinking in terms of influence rather than control, can lead to a more rational and constructive approach to life's challenges. He uses the captivating story of Tabitha, a remarkable individual who has undergone a transformative journey. Tabitha's experiences shed light on the detrimental effects of an insatiable need for control and how embracing influence can liberate one from rigid expectations. Dr. Kashey urges us to focus on what we can influence, promoting rational responses to frustrating stimuli and leading to more constructive outcomes.