In this episode, I explore the idea of architect energy versus gardener energy—a metaphor I first heard from musician Brian Eno. When I was younger, I lived with strong architect energy: I made plans, built the life I wanted, and took satisfaction in achieving goals. But midlife has taught me the power of gardener energy—working with what grows, embracing uncertainty, and collaborating with time and change. I share three guiding questions to help embrace our inner gardener.

Mentioned in this episode:

Ezra Klein interview with Brian Eno (10/3/2025)

Reasons to be Cheerful (David Byrne)

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