Do you ever feel like you're doing everything for everyone—hoping for love, recognition, or simply to belong? In this heartfelt episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays is joined by special guest Sanaiyah Gurnamal, a Relationship Reinvention Coach, to explore the deep emotional patterns behind people pleasing and the transformative power of self-love.Together, they unpack why so many of us seek validation outside ourselves and how that impacts not just our marriages, but our sense of identity. If you’ve ever struggled with over-giving, emotional burnout, or feeling unseen, this conversation is a loving invitation back to yourself. Because real love starts within—and when you choose yourself, you create space for deeper, healthier relationships all around you.