You are not always going to get it right. Sometimes the reaction is going to be strong, and it will pull you into saying and doing things that are counterproductive. Even if you have grown immensely, you are not perfect; you are not flawless. This is why growth is nonlinear. The journey of self-development and personal growth is not about developing an attachment to perfection; it's about recognizing the moments when you are moving in the opposite direction from your long-term goals and building awareness around what you can do differently next time. Recognizing when you "get it wrong" is not an invitation to be hard on yourself. In fact, this is a sign of victory. This is the power of imperfection.