One of the most challenging parts of diplomatic life is being asked to make life-shaping decisions long before you have the full picture. From bidding on posts to preparing for arrival, you’re often required to commit while so much still feels uncertain.

In this episode, we continue our conversation on uncertainty and focus on decision-making within the diplomatic posting cycle- even when information is incomplete.

In this episode, we explore:

• How to approach bidding on posts without overthinking every possible outcome
• Why getting clear on your needs, desires, and non-negotiables is more important than trying to predict the future
• What to consider when thinking about your day-to-day life, not just the headline of a posting
• What shifts once you’ve been offered a post and how to move into deeper research with clarity and curiosity
• Why you are always allowed to change your mind and how reclaiming that choice can help you feel empowered and in control

This episode is about making grounded, values-led decisions throughout the posting process, trusting yourself through uncertainty, and remembering that agency and flexibility can coexist in diplomatic life.

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🎧 Connect with your hosts:

Anna – Instagram: @notjustaspouse | notjustaspouse.com | [email protected]

Emma – Instagram: @thezestielife | [email protected] | zestie.carrd.co