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Expectations are natural and unavoidable. They also often lead to disappointment because outcomes are not 100% controllable. Our expectations reveal a lot about ourselves. It is beneficial to understand what drives our expectations and to communicate them clearly and vulnerably. Otherwise, unmet expectations can create much resentment within, and resentment powerfully impacts our behavior.
A lot of times, expectations are internal
What’s driving us to want something in the first place?
Zero expectations?
Taking ourselves out of the present
It’s unrealistic to be 100% unattached
A growth mindset will always find a win
Unmet expectations can lead to resentment
Shoulds and obligations get weird
Keep refining the ability to communicate
Why is this expectation important to me?
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CONNECT WITH JEFF:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
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Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching
CONNECT WITH TATSU:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
By Jeff Miller & Tatsu FushimiExpectations are natural and unavoidable. They also often lead to disappointment because outcomes are not 100% controllable. Our expectations reveal a lot about ourselves. It is beneficial to understand what drives our expectations and to communicate them clearly and vulnerably. Otherwise, unmet expectations can create much resentment within, and resentment powerfully impacts our behavior.
A lot of times, expectations are internal
What’s driving us to want something in the first place?
Zero expectations?
Taking ourselves out of the present
It’s unrealistic to be 100% unattached
A growth mindset will always find a win
Unmet expectations can lead to resentment
Shoulds and obligations get weird
Keep refining the ability to communicate
Why is this expectation important to me?
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CONNECT WITH JEFF:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching
CONNECT WITH TATSU:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi