this was the hardest thing Ive talked about yet- this is my story uptil now, from my perspective.  my marriage has been hard and Ive learned so much along the way.  its the reason I am who I am and its the reason I wanted to be a relationship coach and help other women feel seen and heard.  I want to empower women who feel like they cannot share their stories, that they did something wrong, and that they have anything to embarrassed about if things didnt turn out exactly as planned.  

Being Indian, having heavy expectations from the outside and within, plus the general desire to fit in and be loved got me into a bit of  a mess.