Relationship Rebel

Do you ever throw adult tantrums?
Do you struggle with all or nothing thinking with friends, partners, family?
Do you feel let down easily?

I do.

Its hard. disappointment is hard.  so lets talk about it

One of my favorite stories- from the outside they were a model couple, but she was slowly dying inside, yet tortured by the idea of breaking apart her perfect looking family.  

My client is the definition of a badass but her marriage felt empty.  

Listen to find out how this played out and what really got us moving quickly

Why do boundaries matter?
Why are they so hard to set?
What are they uncomfortable?
What can we do about it?
Why is it hard to say no, and why is it hard to hear no?

Why are boundaries one of the most important communication tools you can learn and master...

Listen to this episode to get a clear perspective on all of the above.  If you haven't already- also listen to Episode 50 (for boundaries in children)

Today Im talking about some uncomfortable conversations I had to go thru with family that taught me a lot and put my boundaries to test

Even if you dont have kids, this is such an important topic- as an adult we often struggle with boundaries because they were pushed away as children and that habit is hard to break.

Today i am talking about how people sometimes bulldoze boundaries when it comes to children- why does that matter? Why should you care? what is the impact of that?

I love this topic sooo much.  I also hate this topic sooo much. haha!!

In this episode- I talk about good girl messaging with is the root of the people pleaser women who have heard this message so often to the point that we grow up to believe we are unloveable unless we act a very specific way

and what we can do to change this for our kids, and ourselves

why should you care about this? because its hard to be yourself/be in a secure relationship when you are still trying so hard to figure out who you are allowed to be

This is a bonus episode recorded from the heart, in response to some of the terrible happenings.  I think the mental health epidemic is a real thing we need to speak about.  The audio quality is not great, sorry about that, but if that doesnt bother you, this episode is really important. Please share!

I haven't talked about this in a minute, I wanted to thru why do I even do this?  What does it mean to feel silenced? Why as humans do we want to see someone else talk about the things that we don't feel comfortable talking about? Why does this all matter to me enough that Im willing to deal with the negative feedback?

If youre an overthinker like me, i have some tips and new perspective for you.  Overthinking isnt necessarily a bad thing but it will keep you stuck, so learn what to do differently and how to think about this in a way that is useful.  

Also what does it mean to decide? 

And are you stuck with your decisions? 

What if its the wrong choice?

does anyone talk about the weird space that comes after you realize that maybe this relationship is not for you?

well today I am going there.  why is it so hard to leave, after all? why do we feel like it's difficult to know where to turn when we start to navigate this. 

it can be so lonely, so let's chat.  

you are never alone

Today's episode is super candid, I want to share a bit of realness of what's been going on in my life.  

The last few months have been super difficult, and I want to talk about where I thought I was and where I am instead.  

This one was hard to share, but I love this community and wanted to be as transparent and honest as possible