My new book Scars of Gold (Hay House, Sept 23, 2025) is available for preorder. Claim exclusive bonuses when you preorder and register your copy here: www.scarsofgold.com

This solo episode is one I’ve been waiting all year to share with you. It’s not just about my new book Scars of Gold — it’s about the deeper invitation behind it: reconciling with your shadow.

So often we treat the shadow as the enemy — the reason for sabotage, resistance, or disconnection. But what if the shadow is not here to destroy you… but to guide you back to your wholeness?

In this episode, I explore:

* The journey of writing Scars of Gold and how the book “rewrote” me before I could write it.

* Why I see the shadow as benevolent — a storehouse of repressed light, not just pain.

* The difference between self-abandonment, fragmentation, and true integration.

* Why reconciliation with your shadow is the foundation for living with an unleashed heart.

👉 Pre-order Scars of Gold and unlock your bonuses:

When you pre-order at www.scarsofgold.com , you’ll receive the Scars of Gold Immersion, including:

** A 3-part live workshop series (“Reconciling with the Shadow”) diving into core fears, parental/origin shadows, and relational shadows.

** The Golden Shadow Journal to help you reclaim the light your shadow has been guarding.

** Radiant Return, a guided Golden Shadow integration journey.

** A 7-day Golden Shadow Challenge in September.

This is more than a book launch. It’s a full immersion into the work of integration and self-liberation.

CHAPTERS

00:00 – Welcome & why this episode matters

01:00 – What is a “scar of gold”?

01:55 – The influence of Kintsugi & the refusal of brokenness

03:00 – Early book title ideas: I Wish I Failed Them Sooner

04:10 – The Dark Night of the Ego vs. the Dark Night of the Soul

05:10 – The years of “divine frustration” (2020–2023)

06:30 – When the book rewrites you before you can write it

07:05 – Devotional practice: writing the book out loud on social media

09:00 – The world feels it when you reclaim your repressed gifts

09:30 – Invitation to pre-order Scars of Gold + bonuses explained

14:30 – Sacred wounds vs. ordinary wounds

15:00 – The poem on wounds that initiate power

17:00 – Why we scapegoat the shadow and try to amputate it

19:20 – Reconciling instead of resisting the shadow

20:40 – The trap of moral/spiritual superiority

23:00 – Parenting and the humbling power of shadow work

25:20 – The hidden benefits of shadow attachments

26:20 – Chapter 1 of Scars of Gold: The Call of the Shadow

28:20 – Chapter 2: Self-abandonment as the beginning of the divide

30:00 – Love in action vs. conditional self-acceptance

33:15 – Self-abandonment as the “original sin”

34:30 – Chapter 3: Fragmentation and the fracture of the psyche

36:20 – Building a healthy relationship with your shadow

37:20 – The benevolence of the shadow

40:00 – Seeing the shadow as an ally, not an enemy

41:00 – Gratitude and invitation to join the Scars of Gold Immersion

42:30 – Vulnerability of releasing art into the world

46:00 – Final invitation: preorder + 3-part workshop

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