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Ep 19: Can We Build Resilience? With Tim Curtis
You can find additional resources from Tim here: https://resilienceshield.com/
Please follow me on Instagram and TikTok @beahappierparent
Full videos of the episodes available on YouTube @alexindadland
Keywords
resilience, parenting, adversity, children, self-leadership, technology, community, struggle, mental health, emotional intelligence
Summary
In this conversation, Tim Curtis shares his insights on resilience, particularly in children, drawing from his experiences in the SAS and his work in teaching resilience. He emphasizes the importance of adversity in building resilience, the role of struggle in achieving happiness, and the need for children to engage in free play and face risks to develop agency and problem-solving skills. Curtis also discusses the impact of technology on children's mental health and the importance of trust and communication in parenting.
Takeaways
Resilience is built through adversity and stress.
Children need to experience some stress to develop resilience.
Allowing children to sit in their emotions is crucial for self-awareness.
Struggle is essential for true happiness and growth.
Boredom can lead to creativity and self-leadership in children.
Community and free play are vital for children's development.
Technology can impair resilience if not monitored properly.
Trusting children to navigate risks fosters independence.
Parents should model vulnerability and risk-taking for their children.
Building a supportive community can enhance parenting and child development.
Titles
Building Resilient Kids: Insights from an SAS Veteran
The Importance of Adversity in Child Development
Sound bites
"Resilience needs stress to be built."
"With risk comes opportunity."
"You can't just strip out the risk."
Chapters
00:00 From Soldier to Advocate for Children
06:29 The Link Between Resilience and Morality
06:42 Understanding Resilience: Definitions and Components
11:28 Resilience: A Dynamic and Modifiable Concept
16:07 The Necessity of Adversity in Building Resilience
20:24 Happiness Through Struggle vs. Comfort
24:27 Harnessing Synthetic Happiness for Better Outcomes
25:03 Navigating Happiness: Synthetic vs. Enduring Joy
26:05 The Importance of Boredom and Self-Leadership
28:40 Challenging Negativity Bias in Parenting
29:53 The Role of Free Play in Child Development
34:23 Understanding Screen Time and Its Impact
42:50 Lessons from Parenting: Embracing Individuality
46:20 Finding Alternatives to Team Sports
47:56 The Power of Communal Parenting
51:42 Risk, Opportunity, and Resilience in Parenting
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By Alex TrippierYou can find additional resources from Tim here: https://resilienceshield.com/
Please follow me on Instagram and TikTok @beahappierparent
Full videos of the episodes available on YouTube @alexindadland
Keywords
resilience, parenting, adversity, children, self-leadership, technology, community, struggle, mental health, emotional intelligence
Summary
In this conversation, Tim Curtis shares his insights on resilience, particularly in children, drawing from his experiences in the SAS and his work in teaching resilience. He emphasizes the importance of adversity in building resilience, the role of struggle in achieving happiness, and the need for children to engage in free play and face risks to develop agency and problem-solving skills. Curtis also discusses the impact of technology on children's mental health and the importance of trust and communication in parenting.
Takeaways
Resilience is built through adversity and stress.
Children need to experience some stress to develop resilience.
Allowing children to sit in their emotions is crucial for self-awareness.
Struggle is essential for true happiness and growth.
Boredom can lead to creativity and self-leadership in children.
Community and free play are vital for children's development.
Technology can impair resilience if not monitored properly.
Trusting children to navigate risks fosters independence.
Parents should model vulnerability and risk-taking for their children.
Building a supportive community can enhance parenting and child development.
Titles
Building Resilient Kids: Insights from an SAS Veteran
The Importance of Adversity in Child Development
Sound bites
"Resilience needs stress to be built."
"With risk comes opportunity."
"You can't just strip out the risk."
Chapters
00:00 From Soldier to Advocate for Children
06:29 The Link Between Resilience and Morality
06:42 Understanding Resilience: Definitions and Components
11:28 Resilience: A Dynamic and Modifiable Concept
16:07 The Necessity of Adversity in Building Resilience
20:24 Happiness Through Struggle vs. Comfort
24:27 Harnessing Synthetic Happiness for Better Outcomes
25:03 Navigating Happiness: Synthetic vs. Enduring Joy
26:05 The Importance of Boredom and Self-Leadership
28:40 Challenging Negativity Bias in Parenting
29:53 The Role of Free Play in Child Development
34:23 Understanding Screen Time and Its Impact
42:50 Lessons from Parenting: Embracing Individuality
46:20 Finding Alternatives to Team Sports
47:56 The Power of Communal Parenting
51:42 Risk, Opportunity, and Resilience in Parenting