We’ve all heard it:
- Don’t should all over yourself
- Replace should with could

And while that shift can feel lighter, more spacious, and less judgmental…
it doesn’t always move us where we actually want to go.

In this episode, I share what surprised me when I stopped “shoulding” and started “coulding” - and why choice alone wasn’t the freedom I thought it would be.

We explore:

• Why should creates pressure and guilt

• Why could can quietly lead to stagnation

• How decision-making based only on mood leaks momentum

• The role of inner masculine and feminine energy in sustainable action

• How desire (feminine) + provision (masculine) creates natural follow-through

  
  

This episode is an invitation to stop forcing yourself forward —
and instead learn how to move from desire, satisfaction, and inner alignment.

Because momentum isn’t built by pressure.
Nor is it built by chance.
Tune into the episode and find out what makes you continually make aligned moves.

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• Grounded to Grow
• The Treasure Trove
• BEYOND

Follow along on IG:  @daretorest