The Level Up Guys explore mental, emotional, and physical health to help you improve your quality of life and level up. In this episode of The Level Up Guys podcast, hosts Billy and Jarrett continue their discussion about self-trust and what it means to develop an authentic relationship with yourself.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Self-Trust: A Deep Dive

03:36 The Four Pillars of Self-Trust

06:11 Building Self-Trust Through Experience

08:46 Navigating Mistakes and Self-Trust

11:47 The Role of Practice in Self-Trust

14:41 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal

17:25 The Impact of Validation on Self-Trust

20:09 Parenting and Cultivating Self-Trust in Children

22:55 The Interconnectedness of Self-Trust and Life Experiences

01:01:28 Key Insights and Takeaways

Drawing from Emily Romero's compass framework, they explore the four pillars of self-trust: radical honesty, keeping promises to yourself, nervous system regulation, and deep self-knowledge. The conversation examines how external validation can undermine authentic decision-making and offers practical ways to access your inner knowing through stillness and body awareness.

Billy and Jarrett share personal examples from motorcycle riding to yoga practice, illustrating how self-trust develops through experience rather than perfectionism. They address rebuilding trust after self-betrayal and discuss why those who've lost self-trust often become the most self-trusting individuals.

The Level Up Guys podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. Please consult a qualified professional for medical advice, and remember to do your own research.

Resources

We love sharing resources and invite you all to level up with us. Below, you’ll find a curated list of standout reads and tools we genuinely believe are worth your time (and money). If you use the links, you’ll also be supporting the Level Up Guys podcast. Thanks for being part of the journey.

1. Tony Robbins – Awaken the Giant Within

Explores how language shapes our emotions, energy, and actions. A must-read for understanding personal transformation through mindset shifts.

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1. Lisa Feldman Barrett – How Emotions Are Made

Breaks down the science of emotions—how they’re constructed, triggered, and felt. Perfect if you’re curious about the brain-body connection behind what we feel.

👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3YSnWK2

1. Brené Brown – Daring Greatly

A deep dive into vulnerability, shame, guilt, and courage. Explores how embracing discomfort can lead to stronger relationships and greater personal power.

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1. Glennon Doyle – Untamed

Encourages radical self-discovery and authenticity. Her take on jealousy as “admiration holding its breath” hits hard—and this book expands on that beautifully.

👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/45jTUCT

1. Becky Kennedy – Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be

Grounded in emotional intelligence, this one’s not just for parents—it’s a masterclass in guilt, growth, and how to show up better for others (and yourself).

👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4dk66p4

1. Dr. Ethan Kross – Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It

Unpacks the power of self-talk and how to create distance from unhelpful inner narratives. A practical guide to turning mental noise into clarity.

👉 Get it on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3Flf9cP

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Get to know Jarrett : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/jarrett-clayman-framingham-ma/1328337

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Credits

Special thanks to the amazing people behind the scenes that make the Level Up Guys podcast possible:

Producer, Moe Murillo – for steering the ship forward, keeping everything on schedule.

Connect with Moe here:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/mauricio-murillo-capm-csm

Music provided by Remix Live (license free)

Artwork by Billy Batten and Moe.