In this episode, Theresa Harju, spouse of brain tumor survivor Alec Harju, shares her unique perspective as a caregiver. She discusses the challenges and emotional toll of navigating the medical journey alongside her husband. The conversation explores their life before the diagnosis, the impact of surgery and recovery, and the complexities of managing caregiving responsibilities while raising a young family. Theresa also touches on topics such as fertility and medical gaslighting, emphasizing the importance of seeking second opinions. The episode highlights the resilience of families facing such challenges and the journey towards finding a new normal.

• Navigating the medical system requires persistence and organization.
• Awake surgery allows doctors to assess brain function in real-time.
• The emotional impact of losing abilities is profound.
• Caregiving responsibilities can strain personal identity.
• Fertility discussions are important but often overlooked.
• Medical gaslighting can occur, and seeking second opinions is vital.
• Finding a new normal takes time and adjustment.

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The stories shared here are personal accounts from the brain tumor community for informational and awareness purposes only and are not intended as medical advice. Always consult with qualified healthcare professionals regarding your specific situation. Most importantly, take care of yourself as you listen and process.