Relentless & Real

Ep. 2 – Take the Damn Nap: Self-Care for Women Who Lead


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Episode 2 of the Relentless & Real Podcast is live: “Take the Damn Nap: Self-Care for Women Who Lead.”


In this episode of the Relentless & Real Podcast, Heather and Jenny get brutally honest about something most women leaders struggle with but rarely talk about without guilt: rest.

From near-death health scares to returning to work days after major surgery, they unpack why so many women confuse availability with value—and how that mentality is literally costing us our health, our energy, and our joy.

This conversation is part story, part wake-up call, and part practical toolkit for women who lead and are tired of being tired.


In This Episode, You'll Learn:

  • Why so many women leaders struggle to prioritize rest without guilt

  • How “availability = value” shows up in our careers, homes, and relationships

  • Heather’s life-altering medical emergency at 17 and what it taught her about rest

  • Jenny’s story of returning to work days after surgery—and the long-term cost

  • How martyrdom, perfectionism, and people-pleasing keep women exhausted

  • Why outsourcing (house cleaning, groceries, meals) is self-care, not a luxury

  • Practical ways to build self-care into your day:

    • A consistent, intentional morning routine

    • Midday “press pause” moments and micro-naps

    • Real lunch breaks (not eating over your keyboard)

    • Evenings that actually refill your tank

  • The myth of “work–life balance” and a healthier way to think about work and life

  • Why you must come first if you want to lead well at home and at work


Listen on your favorite platform:

🎧 Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relentless-real/id1851878107⁠

🎧 Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/4t9ewaWfp6nvwrJ2GNraCy?si=51fe0273cf014759⁠


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