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Ep 23: True Transparency Or Smoke And Mirrors?

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Our definition and relationship with transparency is very layered. How transparent are we with ourselves and with other people? Are we using transparency as an excuse to protect fears or express ourselves lovingly? We explore various layers of transparency and our relationship to it.


  • Honesty as an introduction to transparency.
  • Communicating the facts AND feelings about a situation.
  • Withholding feedback as dishonesty.
  • Brutal honesty as a fix for withholding feedback.
  • Mind and heart/spirit integration for full transparency.
  • Fears getting in the way of being transparent.
  • Practicing transparency and owning how it lands.
  • Having the intention of growing vs. staying safe.
  • Attachment to the outcome blocks our transparency.
  • Transparency with ourselves comes before transparency with others.
  • Practice vs. performance. 



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    Button Downs And Basketball ShortsBy Jeff Miller & Tatsu Fushimi